Nesting Pleasures

I've Learned That

2010-09-07T07:52:00.000-07:00

I've learned that, no matter what happens, how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.

I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles four things: a rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.

I've learned that, regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life.

I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as making a 'life..'

I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.

I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands. You need to be able to throw something back

I've learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you But, if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others, your work and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you

I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.

I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.

I've learned that every day, you should reach out and touch someone. People love that human touch -- holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.

I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.

God Bless America!

2010-07-04T09:35:00.000-07:00

America the beautiful, or so you used to be.
Land of the Pilgrims' pride; I'm glad they'll never see.

Babies piled in dumpsters, Abortion on demand,
Oh, sweet land of liberty; your house is on the sand.

Our children wander aimlessly poisoned by cocaine
Choosing to indulge their lusts, when God has said abstain.

From sea to shining sea, our Nation turns away
From the teaching of God's love and a need to always pray.

We've kept God in our temples, how callous we have grown.
When earth is but His footstool, and Heaven is His throne.

We've voted in a government that's rotting at the core,
Appointing Godless Judges; who throw reason out the door.

Too soft to place a killer in a well deserved tomb,
But brave enough to kill a baby before he leaves the womb.

You think that God's not angry,that our land's a moral slum?
How much longer will He wait before His judgment comes?

How are we to face our God, from Whom we cannot hide?
What then is left for us to do, but stem this evil tide?

If we who are His children, will humbly turn and pray;
Seek His holy face and mend our evil way:

Then God will hear from Heaven; and forgive us of our sins,
He'll heal our sickly land and those who live within.

But, America the Beautiful, If you don't - then you will see,
A sad but Holy God withdraw His hand from Thee.

~~Judge Roy Moore~~

April Fools Day

2010-04-01T08:00:00.000-07:00

"The first of April is the day we remember what we are the other 364 days of the year." - Mark Twain

"The first of April, some do say,April 1st is dedicated to mischief and merriment for pranksters of all ages. You know what I'm talking about: whoopee cushion, rubber chicken, pie in the face... It's truly the only day of the year that foolishness is encouraged.

Is set apart for All Fools' Day.
But why the people call it so,
Nor I, nor they themselves do know.
But on this day are people sent
On purpose for pure merriment."
- Poor Robin's Almanac, 1790

In honor of April Fools Day, try one or more of the following:

How to Maintain a Healthy Level of Insanity

1. At lunch time, sit in your parked car with sunglasses on and point a hairdryer at passing cars. See if they slow down.

2. Page yourself over the intercom. Don't disguise your voice.

3. Everytime someone asks you to do something, ask if they want fries with that.

4. Put your rubbish bin on your desk and label it "In."

5. Put decaf in the coffeemaker for 3 weeks. Once everyone's over their caffeine addictions, switch to espresso.

6. In the memo field of all Your checks, write "For Smuggling Diamonds"

7. Finish all your sentences with 'In Accordance With The Prophecy.'

8. Don t use any punctuation

9. As often as possible, skip rather than walk.

10. Order a Diet Water whenever you go out to eat, with a serious face.

11. Specify that your drive-through order is "To Go."

12. Sing along at the Opera.

13. Go to a Poetry Recital and ask why the poems don't rhyme?

14. Put mosquito netting around your work area and play tropical sounds all day.

15. Have your colleagues address you by your wrestling name, Rock Bottom.

16. When The money comes out the ATM, scream "I Won!, I Won!"

17. When leaving the zoo, start running towards the parking lot, yelling "run for your lives, they're loose!!'

18. Tell your children over supper: "Due to the economy, we are going to have to let one of you go."

"April hath put a spirit of youth in everything." - William Shakespeare

Spring is Here!

2010-03-21T10:13:00.000-07:00

"For lo, the winter is past, the rain is over and gone;
the flowers appear on the earth; the time of the singing of birds is come, and the voice of the turtledove is heard in our land. The fig tree puts forth its figs, and the vines are in blossom; they give forth fragrance. Arise my love, my fair one, and come away." - Song of Solomon 2:11-13

"All through the long winter, I dream of my garden. On the first day of spring, I dig my fingers deep into the soft earth. I can feel its energy, and my spirits soar." - Helen Hayes

Welcome Spring!

Presidents Day

2010-02-15T08:00:00.000-08:00

Hail to the Chief we have chosen for the nation,

Hail to the Chief! We salute him, one and all.

Hail to the Chief, as we pledge co-operation

In proud fulfillment of a great, noble call.

Yours is the aim to make this grand country grander,
This you will do, That's our strong, firm belief.
Hail to the one we selected as commander,
Hail to the President! Hail to the Chief!

Winter Classes for Men

2010-01-03T06:00:00.000-08:00

THE ADULT LEARNING CENTER

REGISTRATION MUST BE COMPLETED by Monday, Jan 3, 2010

NOTE: DUE TO THE COMPLEXITY AND DIFFICULTY LEVEL OF THEIR CONTENTS, CLASS SIZES WILL BE LIMITED TO 8 PARTICIPANTS MAXIMUM .

Class 1 How To Fill Up The Ice Cube Trays--Step by Step, with Slide Presentation. Meets 4 weeks, Monday and Wednesday for 2 hours beginning at 7:00 PM.

Class 2The Toilet Paper Roll--Does It Change Itself? Round Table Discussion. Meets 2 weeks, Saturday 12:00 for 2 hours.

Class 3 Is It Possible To Urinate Using The Technique Of Lifting The Seat and Avoiding The Floor, Walls and Nearby Bathtub?--Group Practice. Meets 4 weeks, Saturday 10:00 PM for 2 hours.

Class 4 Fundamental Differences Between The Laundry Hamper and The Floor--Pictures and Explanatory Graphics. Meets Saturdays at 2:00 PM for 3 weeks.

Class 5 Dinner Dishes--Can They Levitate and Fly Into The Kitchen Sink? Examples on Video. Meets 4 weeks, Tuesday and Thursday for 2 hours beginning at 7:00 PM

Class 6Loss Of Identity--Losing The Remote To Your Significant Other. Help Line Support and Support Groups. Meets 4 Weeks, Friday and Sunday 7:00 PM

Class 7 Learning How To Find Things--Starting With Looking In The Right Places And Not Turning The House Upside Down While Screaming. Open Forum.Monday at 8:00 PM, 2 hours.

Class 8 Health Watch--Bringing Her Flowers Is Not Harmful To Your Health.Graphics and Audio Tapes. Three nights; Monday, Wednesday, Friday at 7:00 PM for 2 hours.

Class 9 Real Men Ask For Directions When Lost--Real Life Testimonials. Tuesdays at 6:00 PM Location to be determined.

Class 10 Is It Genetically Impossible To Sit Quietly While She Parallel Parks?Driving Simulations.4 weeks, Saturday's noon, 2 hours.

Class 11Learning to Live--Basic Differences Between Mother and Wife. Online Classes and role-playing. Tuesdays at 7:00 PM, location to be determined

Class 12How to be the Ideal Shopping Companion Relaxation Exercises, Meditation and Breathing Techniques.Meets 4 weeks, Tuesday and Thursday for 2 hours beginning at 7:00 PM.

Class 13 How to Fight Cerebral Atrophy--Remembering Birthdays, Anniversaries and Other Important Dates and Calling When You're Going To Be Late. Cerebral Shock Therapy Sessions and Full Lobotomies Offered.Three nights; Monday, Wednesday, Friday at 7:00 PM for 2 hours.

Class 14The Stove/Oven--What It Is and How It Is Used.Live Demonstration. Tuesdays at 6:00 PM, location to be determined.

Upon completion of any of the above courses, diplomas will be issued to the survivors.

Top 10 Predictions for 2010

2010-01-02T09:07:00.000-08:00

1. The Bible will still have all the answers we need.

2. Prayer will still work.

3. The Holy Spirit will still move.

4. God will still enjoy the praises of His people.

5. There will still be God-anointed preaching.

6. There will still be singing to the glory of God.

7. God will still pour out blessings upon His people.

8. There will still be room at the Cross.

9. Jesus will still love you.

10. Jesus will still save the lost when they come to Him.and God approves this message!

Happy New Year!

2010-01-01T09:05:00.000-08:00

A New Year's Prayer

Another year is dawning
With the chance to start anew.
May I be kinder, wiser, Lord,
In all I say and do.
Not so caught up in selfish gain
That I would fail to see
The things in life that mean the most
Cost not a fancy fee.
The warm, kind word that I can give,
The outstretched hand to help,
The prayers I pray for those in need--
More precious these than wealth.
I know not what may lie ahead
Of laughter or of tears;
I only need to know each day
That You are walking near.
I'm thankful for this brand new year
As now I humbly pray,
My hand secure in Yours, dear Lord,
Each step along the way.
**
Kay Hoffman

2009 Goals:

Health: lower cholesteral and blood pressure #s.

Spiritual: devotions everyday! I'm always blessed when I do.

Celebrate: being in my 40s while I still can!

Vacation: to someplace warm and sunny.

Finances: reduce personal debt, pay off bills.

"Every man should be born again on the first day of January. Start with a fresh page. Take up one hole
more in the buckle if necessary, or let down one, according to circumstances; but on the first day of January
let every man gird himself once more, with his face to the front, and take no interest in the things that were and are past." - Henry Ward Beecher

Goodbye 2009

2009-12-31T06:00:00.000-08:00

"Should auld acquaintance be forgot
and never brought to mind?
Should auld acquaintance be forgot
and days of auld lang syne?
For auld lang syne, my dear,
for auld lang syne,
we'll take a cup of kindness yet,
for auld lang syne."
- Robert Burns

2009 Events:

Feb: Purchased 2004 Crossfire w/17,700 miles.
Mar:  Nina got new desk-top computer.
June:  Keziah got a trip to Disneyland w/her Dad.
         Sabrina got a new job as a receptionist.
         Back deck is finally done!
          My father passed away on the 24th.
July: Dale got a small raise in spite of the recession.
         Grandbaby was born on the 12th - Luke.
Aug: Took a week trip to Las Vegas.
Sept:  My brother passed away on the 19th.
Oct: Dale got a new laptop computer.
Nov: Jordache got a new job as a marketer.
         Sabrina hit her weight loss goal - 30 lbs.
Dec: Vacationed in Ocean Shores for a week.

What a year. Looking toward 2010 with anticipation!

Christmas Day

2009-12-25T08:04:00.000-08:00

"I heard the bells on Christmas Day

Their old, familiar carols play,

And wild and sweet the words repeat

Of peace on earth, good-will to men!"

- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

"Happy, happy Christmas, that can win us back to the delusions of our childhood days, recall to the old man

the pleasures of his youth, and transport the traveler back to his own fireside and quiet home!"

- Charles Dickens

The Night Before Christmas

2009-12-24T07:53:00.000-08:00

To the rest of the world, today is Christmas Eve. But to my husband & I, it's our 31st wedding anniversary! Yes, I can hardly believe it. My, how time passes! It's been great to live my life with my most favorite person in the world and my best friend. Few people get that chance. I've been one of the fortunate ones. Looking forward to another 31 years or more together!

It's My Birthday!

2009-12-21T19:35:00.000-08:00

Ten Ways to Know if You Are a SWAG

(Southern Woman Aging Gracefully)

1. You feel the urge to bake a pound cake after reading the obituaries.

2. You have had professional photographs made of your children barefoot and dressed in their Sunday clothes.

3. You believe that cocktail dresses do not double as church clothes.

4. You’d rather have a fight with your husband than with your best friend.

5. You have stolen magnolia leaves, or you know someone who has.

6. You have monogrammed the middle of your shower curtain.

7. You could live without Yankees who equate your accent with a low IQ.

8. You know better than to eat the potato salad at a family reunion.

9. You are socially conditioned to believe that tanned fat looks better than white fat.

10. Your children hide their Easter baskets and Valentine’s Day candy from you just in case you have a dieting lapse.

There's always a lot to be thankful for if you take time to look for it. For example I am sitting here thinking how nice it is that wrinkles don't hurt.

The older you get, the tougher it is to lose weight, because by then your body and your fat has gotten to be really good friends.

If You Look for Me at Christmas

2009-12-20T08:32:00.000-08:00

If you look for Me at Christmas... you won't need a special star,

I'm no longer still in Bethlehem, I'm right there where you are.

You may not be aware of Me amid the celebrations,

You'll have to look beyond the stores and all the decorations.

But if you take a moment from your list of things to do,

And listen to your heart, you'll find I'm waiting there for you.

You're the one I want to be with, you're the reason that I came,

And you'll find me in the stillness as I'm whispering your name.

Love, Jesus

--Author unknown

First Corinthians 13 Christmas

2009-12-12T06:33:00.000-08:00

If I decorate my house perfectly with plaid bows, strands of twinkling lights and shiny balls,

but do not show love to my family, I'm just another decorator.

If I slave away in the kitchen, baking dozens of Christmas cookies, preparing gourmet meals and arranging a beautifully adorned table at mealtime, but do not show love to my family. I'm just another cook.

If I work at the soup kitchen, carol in the nursing home, and give all that I have to charity,

but do not show love to my family, it profits me nothing.

If I trim the spruce with shimmering angels and crocheted snowflakes, attend a myriad of holiday parties and sing in the choir's cantata, but do not focus on Christ, I have missed the point.

Love stops the cooking to hug the child.

Love sets aside the decorating to kiss the husband.

Love is kind, through harried and tired.

Love doesn't envy another's home that has coordinated Christmas china and table linens.

Love doesn't yell at the kids to get out of the way.

Love doesn't give only to those who are able to give in return, but rejoices in giving to those who can't.

Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Love never fails. Video games will break, pearl necklaces will be lost,

golf clubs will rust...but giving the gift of love will endure.

~Author Unknown~

Twas the Night Before Jesus Came

2009-12-10T10:13:00.000-08:00

Twas the night before Jesus came & all thru the house Not a creature was praying not one in the house. Their Bibles were lain on the shelf without care In hopes that Jesus would not come there.

The children were dressing to crawl into bed,
Not once ever kneeling or bowing a head.
And mom in her rocker with baby on her lap
Was watching the Late Show while I took a nap.

When out of the East there arose such a clatter,
I sprang to my feet to see what was the matter.
Away to the window, I flew like a flash
Tore open the shutters and threw up the sash!

When what to my wondering eyes should appear
But angels proclaiming that Jesus was here.
With a light like the sun sending forth a bright ray
I knew in a moment this must be THE DAY!

The light of His face made me cover my head.
It was Jesus! Returning just like He had said.
And through I possessed worldly wisdom and wealth,
I cried when I saw Him in spite of myself.

In the Book of Life which He held in His hand,
Was written the name of every saved man.
He spoke not a word as He searched for my name;
When He said "It’s not here" my head hung in shame.

The people whose names had been written with love
He gathered to take to His Father above.
With those who were ready He arose without a sound
While all the rest were left standing around.

I fell to my knees, but it was too late;
I had waited too long and thus sealed my fate.
I stood and I cried as they rose out of sight;
Oh, if only I had been ready tonight.

In the words of this poem the meaning is clear.
The coming of Jesus is drawing near.
There’s only one life and when comes the last call
We’ll find that the Bible was true after all!

---Author Unknown

Jesus is Better Than Santa

2009-12-05T07:20:00.000-08:00

Santa lives at the North Pole.

JESUS is everywhere.

Santa rides in a sleigh.
JESUS rides on the wind and walks on the water.

Santa comes but once a year.
JESUS is an ever present help.

Santa fills your stockings with goodies.
JESUS supplies all your needs.

Santa comes down your chimney uninvited.
JESUS stands at your door and knocks...then enters your heart.

You have to stand in line to see Santa.
JESUS is as close as the mention of His name.

Santa lets you sit on his lap.
JESUS lets you rest in His arms.

Santa doesn't know your name, all he can say is "Hi little boy or girl, What's your name?"
JESUS knew our name before we did.

Not only does He know our name, He knows our address too.  He knows our history and future and He
even knows how many hairs are on our heads.

Santa has a belly like a bowl full of jelly.
JESUS has a heart full of love.

All Santa can offer is HO HO HO.
JESUS offers health, help and hope.

Santa says "You better not cry."
JESUS says "Cast all your cares on me for I care for you.

Santa's little helpers make toys.
JESUS makes new life, mends wounded hearts, repairs broken homes and builds mansions.

Santa may make you chuckle but
JESUS gives you joy that is your strength.

While Santa puts gifts under your tree
JESUS became our gift and died on the tree.

It's obvious there is really no comparison.
We need to remember WHO Christmas is all about.
We need to put Christ back in Christmas.

Jesus is still the reason for the season.

'Tis the Season

2009-12-03T09:32:00.000-08:00

To Be Jolly! You can almost hear the sleighbells in the distance as our neighbors and friends roll out the tinsel in preparation for the season.

Christmas is anticipated by almost everyone. Luckily, routine days become brightened by long-awaited holidays. There are many things to be joyful about at Christmas: family gatherings, church programs, festive food, shopping, Christmas cards, gift wrapping, holiday music, parties, gift exchanges, decorated tree, ...

With the recession, I realize that for some, things seem dismal. Try your best to focus on the good in life, while trusting God to see you through.

Follow me in merry measure, Fa la la la la la la la la...

Merry Christmas!

2009-12-01T09:06:00.000-08:00

One of my most favorite holiday movies is the 1994 make of Little Women starring Winona Ryder and Susan Sarandan. It's a delightful screen adaptation of Louisa May Alcott's classic 1869 novel.

Story: With her husband off in the U. S. Civil War serving as chaplain for the Union, Marmee is left alone in New England to raise their four daughters, her little women. There is the spirited & imaginative Jo; conservative & sophisticated Meg; fragile & compassionate Beth; and romantic Amy. The girls share a bond that can't be penetrated by outsiders. As the years pass, the sisters share some of the most cherished and painful memories of coming of age, as Marmee and Aunt March guide them through issues of independence, romance and virtue.

The story has lived in my heart for many years. Love how family connection remains strong in the face of tragedies.

The Turkey Shot Out of the Oven

2009-11-28T08:49:00.000-08:00

The turkey shot out of the oven and rocketed into the air,

It knocked every plate off the table and partly demolished a chair.

It ricocheted into a corner and burst with a deafening boom,

Then splattered all over the kitchen, completely obscuring the room.

It stuck to the walls and the windows, it totally coated the floor,

There was turkey attached to the ceiling, where there'd never been turkey before.

It blanketed every appliance, It smeared every saucer and bowl,

There wasn't a way I could stop it, that turkey was out of control.

I scraped and I scrubbed with displeasure, and thought with chagrin as I mopped,

That I'd never again stuff a turkey, with popcorn that hadn't been popped.

by Jack Prelutsky

Stuffed!

2009-11-27T08:52:00.000-08:00

I Ate Too Much Turkey by Jack Prelutsky

I ate too much turkey,

I ate too much corn,

I ate too much pudding and pie,

I'm stuffed up with muffins

and much too much stuffin',

I'm probably going to die.

I piled up my plate

and I ate and I ate,

but I wish I had known when to stop,

for I'm so crammed with yams,

sauces, gravies, and jams

that my buttons are starting to pop.

I'm full of tomatoes
and french fried potatoes,
my stomach is swollen and sore,
but there's still some dessert,
so I guess it won't hurt
if I eat just a little bit more.

Over the River!

2009-11-26T08:29:00.000-08:00

Over the river, and through the wood,
To Grandfather's house we go;
The horse knows the way to carry the sleigh
through the white and drifted snow.

Over the river, and through the wood -
Oh, how the wind does blow!
It stings the toes and bites the nose
As over the ground we go.

Over the river, and through the wood,
To have a first-rate play.
Hear the bells ring, "Ting-a-ling-ding,"
Hurrah for Thanksgiving Day!

Over the river, and through the wood,
Trot fast, and dapple-gray!
Spring over the ground like a hunting-hound,
For this is Thanksgiving Day.

Over the river, and through the wood -
And straight through the barnyard gate,
We seem to go extremely slow,
It is so hard to wait!

Over the river, and through the wood -
Now Grandmother's cap I spy!
Hurrah for the fun! Is the pudding done?
Hurrah for the pumpkin pie!

By: Lydia Marie Child

When I was growing up, we always went to my maternal grandmother's house every Thanksgiving. We lived near Birmingham in Garywood (Hueytown) and my grandmother lived in the outskirts of West Blocton on Smith Hill. Without fail, our family would sing this song in the car on our way. It seemed fitting since we were traveling through more rural country. Thinking about this always brings back good memories for me.

We Gather Together

2009-11-25T08:07:00.000-08:00

We gather together to ask the Lord's blessing;
he chastens and hastens his will to make known;
the wicked oppressing now cease from distressing:
sing praise to his Name, he forgets not his own.

Beside us to guide us, our God with us joining,
ordaining, maintaining his kingdom divine;
so from the beginning the fight we were winning:
thou, Lord, wast at our side: all glory be thine!

We all do extol thee, thou leader triumphant,
and pray that thou still our defender wilt be.
Let thy congregation escape tribulation:
thy Name be ever praised! O Lord, make us free!

We Gather Together is a Christian hymn of Netherlands origin written in 1597 by Adrianus Lalerius to celebrate Dutch victory over Spanish forces in the Battle of Turnhout. In the United States, it is popularly associated with Thanksgiving Day and is often sung at family meals and at religious services on that day.

At the time the hymn was written, the Dutch were engaged in a war of national liberation against the Catholic King Philip II of Spain. "Wilt heden nu treden," "We gather together" resonated because under the Spanish King, Dutch Protestants were forbidden to gather for worship. The hymn first appeared in print in a 1626 collection of Dutch patriotic songs, "Nederlandtsch Gedencklanck."

According to the Hymn Society in the United States and Canada, We Gather Together first appeared in an American hymnal in 1903. The hymn gained popularity, especially in services of Thanksgiving.

Gratitude

2009-11-24T08:17:00.000-08:00

Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire.

If you did, what would there be to look forward to?

Be thankful when you don't know something,
for it gives you the opportunity to learn.

Be thankful for the difficult times.
During those times you grow.

Be thankful for your limitations,
because they give you opportunities for improvement.

Be thankful for each new challenge,
because it will build your strength and character.

Be thankful for your mistakes.
They will teach you valuable lessons.

Be thankful when you're tired and weary,
because it means you've made a difference.

It's easy to be thankful for the good things.
A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who
are also thankful for the setbacks.

Gratitude can turn a negative into a positive.
Find a way to be thankful for your troubles,
and they can become your blessings.

Count Your Blessings

2009-11-23T08:24:00.000-08:00

Count your blessings instead of your crosses;

Count your gains instead of your losses.

Count your joys instead of your woes;

Count your friends instead of your foes.

Count your smiles instead of your tears;

Count your courage instead of your fears.

Count your full years instead of your lean;

Count your kind deeds instead of your mean.

Count your health instead of your wealth;

Count on God instead of yourself.

Color

2009-11-18T08:02:00.000-08:00

Ever wonder how to create an eye-pleasing look in your decor? Have you ever heard of the "60-30-10" rule? Take a look at a magazine page. Notice that:

60% of the color hue unifies the space.

30% provides visual interest.

10% adds that little spark of bling.

So, when decorating a room remember this rule:

60% - dominant color

30 % - secondary color

10% - accent color

It's not much different than assembling an apparel outfit. For example, take a man's suit:

60% - slacks & jacket

30% - dress shirt

10% - neck tie

Now, just translate the same idea to a room setting:

60% - wall/flooring color

30% - upholstery seating color

10% - accents/floral arrangement/pillow

Hopefully, you found this to be enlightening and useful!

Honoring Our Heroes

2009-11-11T09:25:00.000-08:00

"Our debt to the heroic men and valiant women in the service of our country can never be repaid. They have earned our undying gratitude. America will never forget their sacrifices." - President Harry S. Truman.

Veterans Day is when we honor our service men for protecting our freedom and our future. They deserve to be treated with dignity and respect.

Our nation observes the holiday with no mail, no banking, no school, and no library service.

Currently, my nephew JohnRay is in Iraq serving in the U.S. Army. He will get to be home for Christmas. It will be his baby daughter's very 1st Christmas, he's excited to spend it with her. He needs our support and prayers. May God give him health, protection, and wisdom. And may God bless him for his sacrifice!

God bless our soldiers! God bless our great nation!

Sabrina's 24th Birthday!

2009-11-10T08:30:00.000-08:00

Today is my daughter-in-law's birthday. She is an attractive, self-assured, and creative young woman. Sabrina is lovely both inside and out. She is a bright spot in our family. We adore her warm and friendly nature as well as her abundance of feminine charm. My daughter-in-law is articulate and has concern for others. Sabrina is a nurturing and supportive wife to my son Jordache and grand-daughter Jazlyn. She is practical and resourceful in running her household. She is ambitious and talented, desiring to leave her imprint on the world. What more could I ask for? So glad you are a member of this family! Happy 24th Birthday Sabrina!

Voting Day!

2009-11-03T09:00:00.000-08:00

'Twas the night of elections

And all through the town

Tempers were flaring

Emotions all up and down!

I, in my bathrobe

With a cat in my lap

Had cut off the TV

Tired of political crap.

When all of a sudden

There arose such a noise

I peered out my window

Saw Obama and his boys

They had come for my wallet

They wanted my pay

To give to the others

Who had not worked a day!

He snatched up my money

And quick as a wink

Jumped back on his bandwagon

As I started to sink

He then rallied his henchmen

Who were pulling his cart

I could tell they were out

To tear my country apart!'

On Fannie, on Freddie,

On Biden and Ayers!

On Acorn, On Pelosi'

He screamed at the pairs!

They took off for his cause and as he flew out of sight

I heard him laugh at the nation

Who wouldn't stand up and fight!

So I leave you to think

On this one final note

-IF YOU DON'T WANT SOCIALISM...GET OUT AND VOTE!!!!

Happy Hallowe'en

2009-10-31T09:19:00.000-07:00

Hope everyone has a fun & safe Halloween this year . . . especially those of you trading treats for tricks!

FYI:
Juliette Gordon Low, founder of Girl Scouts of America, was born on October 31, 1860 in Savannah Georgia. "Daisy," as she was affectionately called by family and friends, was the second of six children.

She brought girls of all backgrounds into the out-of-doors, helping them develop self reliance and resourcefulness. She encouraged girls to prepare not only for homemaking, but also for roles in the arts, sciences, and business. Girl Scouts welcomed girls with disabilities at a time when they were excluded from other activities and organizations.

From the original 18 girls, Girl Scouts has grown to 3.7 million members. Although married, Juliette never bore any children. She died of breast cancer in 1927.

When I vacationed with my sister and friend in Savannah, we got to tour her lovely 1818 Italianate architecture home. The carriage house in back was the first headquarters of Girl Scouts.

Pink Ribbon Day

2009-10-26T09:00:00.000-07:00

Pink for a Purpose!

October is national breast cancer awareness month, please do your part to support the cause. Since the program began in 1985, mammography rates have more than doubled for women over 50. Breast cancer deaths have declined. That progress is encouraging, however, early detection is key. This includes yearly mammogram screenings and clinical breast exams, not to mention monthly self-examinations. It just might save your life! Put away all excuses: unpleasant, embarrassing, happens to others, ... Come on, be proactive and assertive, don't live in ignorance or denial.

My mother-in-law, my sister-in-law, my husband's aunt & cousin are all breast cancer survivors. Would love for there to be a cure before my sweet granddaughters become women. Pleased that Octobber proceeds from our Bunko group went to help combat breast cancer. Every little bit helps!

Thursday Thirteen

2009-10-22T09:02:00.000-07:00

13 Reasons Why I Love October!

1. Chrysanthemums. Enamored with filling my front porch with 'mums!

2. Autumn decor. Cherish putting out all my fall items for the season!

3. Pumpkins. Admire the bright orange pumpkins filling up my steps!

4. Starbucks drinks. Crazy about pumpkin spice latte, caramel apple cider, hot chocolate...

5. Fall bazaars. Shopping the craft shows/booths get me into the holiday mood!

6. Caramel apples. One of my favorite treats (good thing I only eat them in the fall).

7. Leaves. Fond of falling/turning leaves: red/burgundy, orange, yellow/gold, brown, ...

8. Butternut squash. Baked with real butter and seasoned with salt, mmmm....

9. Fall t.v. line-up. Wild about watching the new season of my favorite shows.

10. Candles. Nothing like setting a fall mood than lighting candles in the evening!

11. Comfort foods: Love soup, pot roast, mashed potatoes, hot apple pie, mac&cheese, ...

12. Reading. When the weather changes, it's perfect for reading a good book.

13. Halloween. Smitten with giving out candy to little kids in cute costumes!

What are your reasons for liking October?

God's Promises for Tough Times

2009-10-18T09:00:00.000-07:00

"And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are called according to His purpose." Romans 8:28

"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble." Psalm 46:1

"I sought the Lord, and He heard me, and delivered me from all my fears." Psalm 34:4

"The Lord is good, a strong hold in the day of trouble; and He knoweth them that trust in Him." Nahum 1:7

"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy paths acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths." Proverbs 3:5,6

"But my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:19

"The Lord is my Shepherd; I shall not want." Psalm 23:1

"Humble yourselves therefore unto the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time: Casting all your care upon Him; for He careth for you." 1 Peter 5:6,7

"Ye shall have a song, as in the night when a holy solemnity is kept; and gladness of heart, as when one goeth with a pipe to come into the mountain of the Lord, to the mighty One of Israel." Isaiah 30:29

"But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run and not be weary; and they shall walk and not faint." Isaiah 40:31

"Thou will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on Thee: because he trusteth in Thee." IS 26:3

"Fear thou not; for I am with thee; be not dismayed, for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee, yea I will uphold thee with the right hand of My righteousness." Isaiah 41:10

"When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee: when thou walkest through the fire, thou shalt not be burned; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee," Isaiah 43:2

"Be careful for nothing; but in everything, by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made know to God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:6,7

"In God I have put my trust: I will not be afraid what men can do unto me." Psalm 56:11

"Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and He shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the Lord." Psalm 27:14

Friday Fill-ins

2009-10-16T09:00:00.000-07:00

1. _______ is my favorite month.
2. _______ scare me.
3. Leaves are falling all around, it's _______.
4. My favorite horror movie is _______ because _______.
5. _______ = good memories.
6. It was a dark and stormy night _______.
7. As for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _______, tomorrow my plans include _______, and Sunday I want to _______.

1. May is my favorite month (I'm actually a "spring" kind of gal).

2. Mice scare me (to death!).

3. Leaves are falling all around, it's time to break out the hot apple cidar!

4. My favorite horror movie is The Ghost of Mr. Chicken because it's funny vs creepy.

5. Disney World trips = good memories (enjoyed 3 different trips with the boys).

6. It was a dark and stormy night as I hunkered down with a good book to read.

7. As for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to a date with Dale, tomorrow my plans include shopping/pumpkin-carving/poker night, and Sunday I want to "eat out"after morning church service.

Like a Pumpkin

2009-10-15T06:00:00.000-07:00

Being a Christian is like a pumpkin.

First, God picks you from the pumpkin patch
and brings you in from the field.

He then washes all the "dirt" off the outside
that we received from being around all the other pumpkins.

He carefully removes all those
seeds of doubt, hate, greed, and fear.

Then He carves you a new smiling face
and puts His light inside you
to shine for all the world to see.

The Bible says He selects us out of the world. We are in the world, but no longer of the world.
All the outside influences of our former life must be cleaned up. Old things are passed away and all things are become new. After Jesus is invited inside, you begin to experience the changing
power of God's love in your life. This pumpkin now reflects the light from inside out. So too, when Jesus, who is called the Son of Light, lives inside of us, He shines through our life for all to see. We can let His light reflect through us to reveal His presence. "Let your light so shine before men that they may be able to see your good works and glorify your Father, who is in heaven."

So you see, we Christians are really like this pumpkin! We will never be the same with Jesus inside of us. We can say like this jack-o-lantern, "Thy presence, my light!"

Columbus Day

2009-10-12T06:22:00.000-07:00

In 1492, Columbus sailed the ocean blue
He sailed & sailed & sailed & sailed
To find this land for me and you!

Do you remember this old grade school song?

Today we celebrate the anniversary of Christopher Columbus's arrival in America. The voyage took place in October 1492. Italian-Americans observe today as a celebration of their heritage.

Columbus was a navigator, colonizer, and explorer. His aspirations led to his awareness of the American continents. His exploring was funded by Queen Isabella and King Ferdinand of Portugal after being rejected by Spain. They were willing to equip three ships to search for a western route to the Orient. They agreed to make Columbus "Great Admiral of the Ocean," appoint him governor of land discovered, and give him 1/10th of all revenues from the lands.

Although he wasn't the first to reach the Americas, he did initiate widespread contact between Europeans and the natives. He severely underestimated the circumference of the Earth. When he landed, he assumed he stepped on East-Asian soil. He referred to the natives as Indios.

Christopher Columbus was born in Genoa, Italy to a middle-class family. My husband's grandfather was born in 1892 and raised in San Fior, Treviso, Italy near Venice. His name: Ettore' Giovanni, means Hector John. He immigrated to Canada first before entering the U.S. He was married at age 23 in a Catholic church in Fernie, B.C. He founded a town in British Columbia: Natal, which means birth in Italian. He traveled to Great Falls, Montana by caboose. Eventually, he made his way to Puyallup, WA in 1925. He loved to sing opera in his "Caruso" voice. He raised grapes and was an excellent pruner and grafter of fruit trees, a skill he learned from the "Old Country." He built a home on a 5-acre farm in Edgewood that was custom fitted to their stature.

With the surname "Perozzo," our family is proud of its Italian inheritance!

Think Before Speaking

2009-10-03T06:03:00.000-07:00

THINK

T is for TRUE

H is for HELPFUL

I is for INSPIRATIONAL

N is for NECESSARY

K is for KIND

T- is it true? Before you say anything ask yourself if it's really true. Proverbs 16:13 "Kings take pleasure in honest lips;they value a man who speaks the truth." Is this absolute truth? Anything beyond this is evil. Don't exaggerate. Don't embellish. That is going beyond the truth.

H- is it helpful? If you've established that what you're about to say is true, now ask yourself if it's helpful. Consider Ephesians 4:29 "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." Before you say anything ask if what you're wanting to say going to help this person. Be careful not to stop at truth. People say things that damage and hurt others and then throw out the silly statement, "well, it's true" as if that makes it okay. The Bible does not give us permission to say anything just because it's true. It's not good enough just to make true statements. It must be helpful and build others up.

I- is it inspirational? Does it bring people to God? Does it bring glory to God? 1 Corinthians 10:31 "So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God."

N- is it necessary? Why are you talking? Proverbs 10:19 "When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise." The more you talk, the more chance you have to sin. So, ask yourself these questions. Do I have to say this? Is this really necessary? Why am I about to say what I'm about to say?

K- is it kind? Colossians 4:6 "Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone." Proverbs 12:25 "An anxious heart weighs a man down, but a kind word cheers him up." Everything that comes out of our mouth should be kind, giving and full of grace.

Let's THINK before we speak about anyone, including our family members and celebrities. The Bible doesn't make exceptions and neither should we. Let's go out and love!

My Oldest Brother's Passing

2009-09-24T18:00:00.000-07:00

Sadly, my oldest brother (Lee Earl) was buried today in Alabama Naional Cemetery in Montevallo, it's considered the "Arlington of the South." As an honorable decorated Vietnam veteran, an Army buglar sounded "Taps" and a U.S. flag was presented by the Honor Guard to the family as well as a Presidential Memorial Certificate. Dignitaries gently placed his cremated remains in the burial plot. It was a lovely tribute to his sacrifices made for our country.

As a lifetime member of 101st Airborne Division, Lee (Earl) earned numerous medal of honors as an Army Sergeant including: Purple Heart, Bronze Star, Air Medal, Army Commendation medal, Vietnam Service medal (with one Silver Service star and 3 Bronze Service stars), Combat Infantry badge, National Defense Service medal, Vietnam Campaign ribbon, Vietnam Conflict Gallantry cross with Palm Unit Citation badge, Vietnam Civil Actions Honor medal, First Class unit citation, and Parachute badge. He for survived a helicopter crash in which he endured a head injury and ear surgery. He pulled out/rescued many soldiers before the fire consumed the vessel. He marched through dangerous rice fields and managed to avoid land mines (thanks to my mother who didn't let a day go by without praying for him). During his military service, he brought many to safety.

For those who did not know him, you should know how creative and talented he was. He could conceptualize an idea and bring it to fruitition. He loved inventing and he built two of his own homes and designed the blue-prints. He designed and layed out all his own landscaping complete with gazebo and rock wall overlooking a waterfall and creek. He was a master wood craftsman and a jewelry designer. He was a collector of old coins, civil war paraphernalia, old jewelry, and silver pieces. He was also an avid University of Alabama football fan. In his health, he was highly energetic, productive, and ambitious.

He served as a long-time employee of the U.S. Corps of Engineers (15 years as a civilian), in charge of million $ projects such as building bridges and roads and helping with major hurricane disasters along the Gulf Coast. Divorced in 1997, he fathered three beautiful daughters: Michelle, Raquelle, & Rachel.

He was a no-nonsense kind of guy with a lot of practical know-how. He approached life with gusto and verve. I miss him immensely, his memory will sustain me. May he rest in peace.

Oktoberfest

2009-09-19T06:00:00.000-07:00

Germany:
Located in the midst of Europe, Germany is surrounded by the North Sea, Denmark, Baltic Sea, Poland, Czech, Austria, Switzerland, France, Luxemburg, Belgium, and the Netherlands.

From the high Alps, Bavarian plains, flowing hills, and coasts of the Baltic Seas: it all looks like a miniature train landscape packed with the nicest of old towns, medieval houses, gothic churches and small villages.

Germany is the land of poets and thinkers.

A popular German saying has the meaning: "Breakfast like an emperor, lunch like a king, and dine like a beggar."

My husband's maternal side of the family is named Blumenthal. They were originally from Germany. Dale & I would love to visit the country sometime.

Mother's Birthday

2009-09-11T06:00:00.000-07:00

Today is the "9-11" anniversary, grandparents day, and my mother's 87th birthday! Since most of you have never met her, allow me to tell you about "Mama." She's free-spirited, amusing, sharp witted with a quick mind, and highly intuitive. She was a partner with my father for 62.5 years of marriage. She was a devoted mother of six children whom she raised and disciplined. During those years she managed a household: cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, decorating, . . . She always had a good eye and taste for fashion.

She's friendly, outgoing, and socialable, very fond of people in general. She knows how to make people feel welcomed and comfortable. She loves and nurtures children. She has a heart for the downtrodden, you could say she's a defender of the underdog. She strongly believes in fairness and resents false displays of caring and emotion. She hates arrogance and believes humans should never be demoralized. She has always desired our family to be warm, loving, and stable.

She loves the Lord and lives an honest, moral life. She has and continues to live a life of integrity. I truly love you mother, Happy 87th Birthday!

Back to School

2009-09-09T06:00:00.000-07:00

"School days, school days, dear old golden rule days. Reading & writing & 'rithmetic..." It's interesting how one simple jingle can immediately summon countless memories of childhood. With the onset of fall, comes the exciting rush of a new school year.

Labor Day Weekend

2009-09-07T06:00:00.000-07:00

Celebrated the last hurrah of summer with family and friends! Dale's childhood friend spent the weekend with us. He and his wife (Barry & Kathy) live in Nashville, they drove out here in their motorhome. Dale barbecued brisket and we had family & friends over. We had a great time. We also took our visitors site-seeing to Point Defiance Park and to Seattle to see the Space Needle and Pike Place Market. We got to see them in March 2008 when we flew to Nashville.

ABCs of ME

2009-08-30T06:00:00.000-07:00

A - Attached or Single - happily married
B - Best Friend - Sharon
C - Cake or Pie - Toss up
D - Day of the Week - Friday (date nite)
E - Essential Item - Diet Coke can
F - Favorite Color - Blue
G - Gummi Bears or Gummi Worms - neither
H - Hometown - Garywood Alabama
I - Indulgence - Naps
J - January or July - duh, July
K - Kids - Two fabulous grown sons
L - Life is Incomplete Without - family, I love them all
M - Marriage Date - December 24, 1978
N - Number of Siblings - Five: 3 sisters, 2 brothers
O - Oranges or Apples - oranges (in season)
P - Phobias or Fears - mice!
Q - Quote - "Eat, sleep, and be merry"
R - Reason to Smile - great husband!
S - Season - Spring, the grey begins to dissappear
T - Text or Talk - definitely talk, preferably in person!
U - Unknown Fact - I was a girl scout
V - Vacation Destination - anywhere warm with sand and palm trees, especially in January
W - Worst Habit - scratching my head
X - X-Rays or Ultrasound - ultrasound, take advantage of newer technology
Y - Your Favorite Food - Pizza or Pasta - pasta with sauce
Z - Zodiac Sign - Sagitarrius (Dec 21)

Jordache's Birthday

2009-08-27T06:00:00.000-07:00

Today, my younger son is 23 years old! Hard to believe. He's turned into a nice young man, learning to be a good husband and father. He's sensitive, good-looking, intelligent, compassionate, laid-back, and fun to be around (a great catch, Sabrina). He has a drive to reach his goals in life. Recently, he's managed to turn adversity into opportunity. He's social, persuasive, and has strong communication skills which should serve him well in his career. His optimistic attitude and vitality gives him a deep appreciation of all that life has to offer. Jordache, I hope you realize all your dreams, Happy 23rd Birthday!

Boy, Do I Know My Guy!

2009-08-21T06:00:00.000-07:00

1. What's he doing right now? Riding his bicycle to town to run some errands.

2. You're out to eat; what kind of dressing does he get on his salad? Vinegar and oil or Italian dressing.

3. What's one food he doesn't like? ONIONS! and peanut butter.

4. When you go out to eat, what drink does he order? He drinks a variety of liquids, he doesn't like to get in a rut.

5. Where did he go to high school? Curtis High School, University Place, Tacoma WA

6. What size shoe does he wear? Usually a Size 10, occasionally a 1/2 size up or down depending on the make/brand.

7. If he was to collect anything, what would it be? Well, he has a collection of hot wheels. If money was no object, he'd collect old cars.

8. What is his favorite type of sandwich? #1 Italian sub, occasionally he'll order a club, Rueben, or Monte Cristo.

9. What would this person eat every day if he could? Wood- fired thin-crust pepperoni pizza with fresh tomatoes, artichokes, and jalapenos.

10. What is his favorite cereal? Kellogg's Raisin Bran or Walmart's brand of raisin bran.

11. What would he never wear? The color pink and Speedos

12. What is his favorite sports team? NBA: Portland Trailblazers; MLB: Seattle Mariners; NFL: Seahawks; College: UnivAla or UW

13. Who will he vote for? Conservative Republican or any other fiscally conservative.

14. Who is his best friend? That would be me of course. Who else?

15. What is something you do that he wishes you wouldn't do? Stay up late. He likes to wake up at 6:00am or even earlier.

16. How many states has he lived in? Two: Only one year in AL, the rest in Washington St.

17. What is his heritage? He's a mutt: 1/4 Italian, 1/4 Czech, 1/8 German, and some English.

18. You bake him a cake for his birthday; what kind of cake? He likes white/yellow cake with cherry frosting.

19. Did he play sports in high school? Yes, he was on the cross-country team, member of the 10,000 mile club, & ran 5 marathons!.

20. What could he spend hours doing? This question is really asking what he loves to do.
1. Sitting on our new deck, enjoying the scenery, listening to music
2. Scanning the internet for interesting sites/deals: ebay, Craigslist,...
3. Watching TV on his big-screen in the media room: sports, concerts,...

I KNOW WHO I AM

2009-08-18T06:00:00.000-07:00

I am God's child (John 1:12)

I am Christ's friend (John 15:15 )

I am united with the Lord (1 Cor. 6:17)
I am bought with a price (1 Cor 6:19-20)
I am a saint (set apart for God). (Eph. 1:1)
I am a personal witness of Christ. (Acts 1:8)
I am the salt & light of the earth (Matt 5:13-14)
I am a body of Christ member (1 Cor 12:27)
I am free from condemnation Rom. 8: 1-2
I am a significant citizen of Heaven. (Phil 3:20)
I am free from any charge against me Rom 8:31
I am a minister of reconciliation for God2Cor :17
I have access to God through the Spirit Eph :18
I am seated with Christ in the heavenly Eph 2:6
I cannot be separated from God's love Rom 8:35
I am established & anointed by God 2Cor:21-22
I am assured things work for good Rom 8:28
I am chosen/appointed to bear fruit Jn 15:16
I may approach God with confidence Eph 3: 12
I can do all things through Christ Phil 4:13
I am the branch of the true vine, a channel of His life (John 15: 1-5)
I am God's temple (1 Cor. 3: 16). I am complete in Christ (Col. 2: 10)
I am hidden with Christ in God (Col. 3:3)
I have been justified (Romans 5:1)
I am God's co-worker (1 Cor. 3:9; 2 Cor 6:1)
I am God's workmanship (Eph.. 2:10)
I am confident that the good works God has begun in me will be perfected. (Phil. 1: 5)
I have been redeemed and forgiven ( Col 1:14)
I have been adopted as God's child (Eph 1:5)
I belong to God!

Do you know who you are?

Southern Rules

2009-08-15T06:00:00.000-07:00

“Sir” and “Ma’am” are not just for occasional usage.

Men hold doors for women/ seniors.

If someone else needs a seat, you give them your seat, and you don’t complain.

“Being a good Samaritan” is not just a saying, its an understood way of life.

"Darling”, “Sweetheart”, “Honey”, and “Dear” are used, for the most part, as endearing expressions.

You can dislike someone as much as you want, but when you see them you act cordially.

When you bump into someone you say “pardon” or “excuse me.”

Waving at people you don’t know or asking how they’re doing is not to be looked down upon.

You can take time to slow down. Slower paced lives are happier lives.

Say “God bless you” when someone sneezes.

When in doubt, be as polite as possible. Only confront others when confronted.

People hug one another, its OK.

If you disagree with something, be polite. “Oh….I see,” or “Oh…thats nice, Darlin” will suffice.

Saying grace at the table, even to yourself, should not be looked upon with disdain.

The only place where cars still stop (even on the highway) for funerals.

ALL people have the ability to behave like Southerners, though not necessarily recreate the accent.

You Know You're From Alabama When . . .

2009-08-12T06:00:00.000-07:00

1. You can properly pronounce Arab, Boaz, Opelika, Oneonta, Tuscaloos, and Eufaula.

2. You think people who complain about the heat in their states are sissies.

3. A tornado warning siren is your signal to go out in the yard and look for a funnel.

4. You know that the true value of a parking space is not determined bythe distance to the door, but by the availability of shade.

5. Stores don't have bags or shopping carts, they have sacks and buggies.

6. You think everyone from a bigger city has an accent.

7. You measure distance in minutes, not miles.

8. You listen to the weather forecast before picking out an outfit.

9. Someone you know has used a football schedule to plan their wedding date.

10. You aren't surprised to find movie rental, ammunition, beer, and bait all in the same store.

11. You think that Krispy Kreme donuts are the only ones that exist.

12. You actually get these jokes and are "fixin' " to send them to your friends.

13. You've had to switch from heat to A/C in the same day.

14. You use "fixin" as a verb. Ex. I'm fixin' to go to the store.

15. You carry jumper cables in your car . . . for your OWN car!

16. You go to Gulf Shores every summer.

17. When getting aquainted with someone, the 1st thing you ask: Alabama or Auburn fan?

18. You install locks and security lights on your house and leave both off.

19. You think the 1st day of deer season is a national holiday.

20. You call a garden hose a "hose pipe."

21. You don't carry/take something, you "tote" it.

22. Asian food is always "chinese," even though it may be Thai, Korean, Japanese, etc,...

23. Mamanem means the whole family. "Are mamanem comin'?"

24. You know all four seasons: almost summer, summer, still summer, and Christmas.

25. You say "sir" and "ma'am" even if you think the person may be a day older.

And finally, you are 100% Alabamian if you ever had this conversation:

"You wanna coke?" "Yeah." "What kind?" "Dr. Pepper."

Thank You, God, For Everything

2009-08-09T06:00:00.000-07:00

Thank you, God, for everything
The big things and the small,
For every good gift comes from God
The giver of them all.

And all too often we accept
Without any thanks or praise
the gift of God send as blessings
Each day in many ways.

And so at this time
We offer up a prayer
To thank you God for giving us
A lot more than our share....

First, thank You for the little things
That often come our way,
The things we take for granted
But don't mention when we pray,

Then, thank you for the miracles
We are much too blind to see,
And give us new awareness
Of our many gifts from Thee,

And help us to remember
That the key to life and living
Is to make each prayer a prayer of thanks
And every day Thanksgiving.

Helen Steiner Rice

Southern Women

2009-08-06T06:00:00.000-07:00

Appreciate their natural assets:

Peachy skin (thanks to humidity); Born knowing how to flirt; Southern drawl

Know their manners:

"Yes, ma'am"; "Yes, sir"; "Why, don’t you dare darlin`!"Have priceless expressions:"Y'all come back!"; "Well, bless your heart.";"Drop by when you can.";"That’s so nice."

Know everybody's first name:

Honey; Darlin'; Shugah; You Handsome Devil

Know the movies that speak to their hearts:

Fried Green Tomatoes; Driving Miss Daisy; Steel Magnolias; Gone With The Wind

Know their religions:

Baptist; Methodist; Football

Know their country breakfasts:

Grits; Country ham and red-eye gravy; Mouth-watering homemade biscuits & jam

Know their cities:

Chawl'stn; S'vanah; Foat Wuth; N'awlins; Addlanna

Know their elegant gentlemen:

Men in uniform; Men in tuxedos; Rhett Butler

Know their prime real estate:

The Mall; The Country Club;The Beauty Salon

Know the three deadly sins:

Having bad hair and nails; Having bad manners; Cooking bad food

I've Been Tagged

2009-08-03T06:00:00.000-07:00

I am . . . the hostess with the mostest!

I miss . . . my father. No longer can I pick up the phone to speak with him or travel back to visit him.

I think . . . my husband is the best in all the world!

I love . . . shopping in unique shops/boutiques, not malls (everything seems to be the same).

I know . . . I'm supposed to drive 70mph on the freeway!

I want . . . to leave behind a lasting impression on my family and friends.

I search . . . Google.com for knowledge, answers to questions, curious topics . . .

I wish . . . upon fallen eyelashes I find!

I hate . . . onions and good-byes.

I am scared of . . . rodents of any kind, any critter with a long thin tail.

I fear . . . I could have another mini-stroke or even worse a full blown stroke.

I am always . . . browsing catalogs/magazines/newspapers.

I hear . . . trains running on the track in the distance.

I don't always . . . answer phone calls, return e-mails, answer the door, etc . . .

I wonder . . . what the future holds, guess I'll have to wait to find out.

I care . . . too much about strangers. If I see an ambulance or a stranded vehicle, I pray for 'em.

I regret . . . don't even get me started, there is always something I could have done better: raising my sons, being a daughter, ... Or something I should have done: made a call, wrote a note, visited, ...

I believe . . . the bible is the inspired word of God.

I danced . . . the night away at my son Jordache & Sabrina's wedding!

I write . . . whatever pops into my head, dangerous, huh?

I win . . . something occasionally when playing Bunko!

I lose . . . everthing - battles, my mind, eyeglasses, keys, remote controls, self-control, . . .

I never . . . refuse dessert when it's offered, thus my size!

I listen . . . to my playlist selections (they're on my blog). It's quite a mix of music styles.

I can be found . . . sitting at the computer making graphic designs, posting a blog, checking e-mail, and reading facebook entries.

Things That Attract Me to My Guy

2009-07-31T06:00:00.000-07:00

The following is in no particular order:

He's a Godly man, giving Him credit for accomplishments.

He lives by ethical/biblical principles.

He's inspirational. I enjoy his company, he's fun to be with.

He solves all my problems, he always knows what to do.

He makes me feel like the most special gal in the world.

He's compassionate, good-hearted, and a good listener.

He's brilliant, competent and intelligent.

He's easy on my eyes! Yeah, I said it.

He's professional and sacrifices to provide for me.

He's totally committed to our marriage.

He's ambitious and driven, full of good ideas.

He makes solid, wise decisions.

He's considerate, patient, and tactful.

He's organized, a born list-maker.

Can you see why I'm so in love with my husband?

Beating the Heat

2009-07-29T06:00:00.000-07:00

Ever since I was a young girl, summer has meant freedom to me. I couldn't wait for that final bell of the school year that signaled the end of homework and the beginning of fun. I still revel in the millions of possibilities these sundrenched months hold. It's been hot here in the northwest. In fact, we've experienced record high temperatures, but I still enjoy every sultry minute of it, especially since I have air conditioning. No, you won't hear me complain, because I know summer will be too short lived. I love sporting shorts, sleeveless tops, and sandals. I love seeing my plants flourish in the yard and my window box flowers brilliant with color. I love eating my husband's famous barbecue, drinking my ice tea, and having key lime pie for dessert. I love sunning on the deck while reading. I love going to farmers' markets for the freshest produce. Summer is wonderful! It makes me think of kite flying, picnics in the park, and walks on the beach. Somehow, balmy evenings are romantic to me. Yes, I can truly say "I savor every minute of summer!"

Why You Should Love the South

2009-07-27T06:00:00.000-07:00

If you want a glimpse of Southern life,
Come close and walk with me;
I'll tell you all the simple things,
That you are sure to see.

You'll see mockingbirds and bumblebees,
Magnolia blossoms and Dogwood trees,
Caterpillars on the step,
Wooden porches cleanly swept;

Watermelons on the vine,
Strong majestic Georgia pines;
Rocking chairs and front yard swings,
June bugs flying on a string;

Turnip greens and hot cornbread,
Coleslaw and barbecue;
Fried okra, fried corn, fried green tomatoes,
Fried pies and pickles too.

There's ice cold tea that's syrupy sweet;
And cool, green grass beneath your feet;
Catfish nipping in the lake,
And fresh young boys on the make.

You'll see all these things
And much, much more,
In a way of life that I adore.

Decor - Learn Your Style

2009-07-25T06:00:00.000-07:00

If you're a follower/reader of my blog, then you know I have an interest in interior decorating. The following informative 21 question test will give you clues to the era, textures, colors, architecture, furniture, and accessories you're drawn to. NO FAIR PEEKING AHEAD! Have Fun!

1. On Weekends I’d best love to

A. Browse at the Metropolitan Museum of Art, if I can’t be at the Louvre

B. Walk in a big city

C. Meditate in a simple garden

D. Sink into my wing chair and read history

E. Pick blueberries

2. You wouldn’t be wrong if you called me

A. Old World

B. Forward Thinking

C. Contemplative

D. Patriotic

E. Bucolic

3. My Heart could sing if you gave me

A. Scones or croissants

B. A bagel

C. Sushi or Peking duck

D. Turkey and yams

E. Oatmeal

4. The television series I would hate to miss would be

A. Upstairs Downstairs or Dynasty

B. Kate and Allie or Nova

C. Shogun or The Art of Ikebana

D. The Adams Chronicles or The Constitution with Bill Moyers

E. The Waltons or Little House on the Prairie

5. The magazine to which I’d most likely subscribe is

A. Connoisseur

B. Architectural Digest

C. Oriental Antiques

D. American Heritage

E. Country Living

6. I’d never get up if I could sleep on

A. An Elizabethan gilt-painted bed with a brocade canopy

B. A huge (almost endless) platform bed

C. A futon

D. A Federal mahogany four-poster

E. A plain, wooden Shaker-style bed

7. Check me out walking down the street with a

A. French poodle

B. Greyhound

C. Shar-pei

D. American foxhound

E. Collie

8. You’ve been invited to a dinner party. When you arrive, the house knocks you out because

A. It’s white fluted columns are smashing; its lawn manicured.

B. The entire house seems to be a vista of glass.

C. You think those are shoji screens at the window, and you know that’s a Zen rock garden at the side of the house.

D. Brownstones, after all, are your favorite

E. You just know there’s a roaring fire and a braided rug behind the yellow clapboards and black shutters.

9. If you put up a screen to divide a room, it would

A. Have hunting scene panels

B. Be free-formed and flowing

C. Have Mother-of-pearl lotus blossoms floating on black lacquer

D. Be wallpapered with a Revolutionary War motif

E. Be stenciled with charming flowers or maybe an art naif design

10. The best view is framed by

A. Marvelous velvet drapes, lushly spilled onto the floor

B. Floor-to-ceiling picture windows...no curtains at all

C. A shoji screen

D. Colonial double sashes, each with twelve panes

E. Dormer windows under gabled roofs

11. Staircases should

A. Have intricately carved balusters

B. Be stainless steel

C. Be nonexistent

D. Be massive and dark-wooded

E. Be spindled

12. An exhibit that would really speak to me would feature

A. Van Gogh, Rembrandt, or collection of gorgeous Georgia silver

B. Picasso, Frank Lloyd Wright architectural drawings, or Bauhaus

C. Decorated scrolls or flower arrangements

D. Early American samplers, Chippendale furniture, or primitive art

E. Quilts or wicker

13. My favorite novelist is

A. W. Somerset Maugham

B. Issac Asimov

C. Yukio Mishima

D. Henry James

E. Mark Twain

14. For just a little while, I’d love to go back to

A. Ancient Greece or Rome

B. The early twenties right here

C. The Sung Dynasty

D. Visit George and Martha Washington

E. My Aunt Dotty’s cottage

15. The colors that make me feel happiest are

A. Jewel tones--deep rubies, dark sapphires

B. Black, white, and gray

C. Jades, Carnelians, lacquered blacks

D. Red, white and blue

E. Yellow, barn red and dimity whites

16. The fence around my ideal house would consist of

A. No fence at all-I’d like a moat, though

B. A colorful grid

C. Bamboo trees

D. Elegant ironwork

E. White pickets

17. My favorite clothes are often made of

A. Brocades, velvets, taffetas

B. Leather, outrageous metallics, soft and natural fabrics

C. Embroidered silks

D. Tweeds, wools, cashmeres

E. Denim, organdy, cotton

18. This gives me such pleasure

A. The patina of much-touched wood

B. The smooth sheen of steel and glass

C. The gloss of lacquer

D. The depth of polished brass

E. The luster of copper and pewter

19. Give me a mirror with a back made of

A. Hallmarked silver

B. Lucite

C. Mother-of-pearl and semiprecious stones

D. Solid, carved maple

E. Quilted chintz

20. I’d like the status feeling I’d get by driving in a

A. Mercedes

B. DeLorean

C. Honda Prelude

D. Vintage Edsel

E. Jeep

21. If I had a mantel, over it or on it would sit

A. French Landscape

B. Henry Moore sculpture

C. Pair of blue and white urns porcelain urns

D. Brass eagle

E. Rooster weather vane

And now for the analysis:

Did you choose mostly As?

The essential you is tailor-made for European Opulence. A traditional, comfortable-yet-formal home is more to your taste than any other signature. Your heart is caught in the look of the fabulous past.

Did you choose mostly Bs?

You're a child of the future, an admirer of modern technology; Classic Contemporary is your sleek, svelte signature.

Did you choose mostly Cs?

Serenely magnificent Oriental Grace is the signature that is most exciting for you. You could go, as well, for a Rich-Mix...any of the other signatures accented heavily with Chinese luxury or Japanese simplicity.

Did you choose mostly Ds?

I would think that American Pedigree would please you enormously. You admire the classicism of our heritage, the integrity of dark, deep woods, the comfort of a deep wing chair.

Did you choose mostly Es?

Country Charm is your kind of posh. The charm of the hearth, the hunt, and naive art make you smile. The richness of the sea or the sun-bleached character of the Southwest are your cup of tea.

Did your answers/choices reveal what you expected? Did you learn anything about yourself and your personal decor style? If so, I'l love to know your style. Can you guess mine?

Photographic Memories

2009-07-23T06:00:00.000-07:00

There's something romantic about the written connections from years past. But until the 1800s, mail was often refused because recipients did not want to pay the costly postage prices. Then, the 1st U.S. stamps were introduced in 1849 and suddenly a craze for corresponding quickly developed.

With postage costs suddenly more affordable, the public became particularly interested in exchanging quick written messages. Precursors to the present-day postcard appeared in forms such as lithograph prints and envelopes with pictures printed on them. By the 1870s, the post office offered "postal cards" preprinted with a 1-cent stamp. "Souvenir" cards, privately published cards, grew in popularity.

Collecting postcards is one of the world's most popular hobbies. The endless range of subjects adds to their mass appeal. Anything from landmark buildings to exotic locations to historical events are desired.

Though serious collectors may seek postcards for their grand historical significance, these pictorial records are more than a way to piece the past together. Cards collected over time illustrate your life's journey, snapshots of not just a special place in time, but a specific page in your personal story.

Taste of Tradition

2009-07-21T06:00:00.000-07:00

Attending gatherings in the south, crowds gather while the tempting aroma of fresh baking mixes with the giddy anticipation and lively chatter fill the air. Hospitality is always on the menu. Growing up in Alabama, I ate really good food. I fondly remember homegrown vegetables. Lasagna was never served. Instead, I ate butter beans with cornbread, fried chicken, country ham, pork chops, macaroni and cheese, vegetables (fried okra, green tomatoes, fresh corn, cucumbers, peas, squash, green beans, zucchini, sweet potatoes), biscuits, sweet tea, and homemade desserts (chess pie, banana pudding, cobbler).

I've included a much requested family recipe:

Sweet Potato Casserole

Ingredients:

3 cups sweet potatoes

2 eggs

1 cup sugar

2 teaspoons vanilla

1 cube butter/margarine

1/3 cup milk

Crust:

1 cup brown sugar

1/3 cup flour

1 cup chopped pecans

1/3 cup melted butter

Directions:

Grease 10" baking dish.

Mix all "filling" ingredients in bowl and pour in casserole dish.

Mix all "crust" ingredients in bowl and pour on top of "filling."

Bake 35-45 minutes at 350 degrees.

This is particularly appropriate for the Thanksgiving holiday meal.

PS: This recipe is especially for my sister-in-law Maribeth.

Enjoy!

I hope you all have a great summer and take a little time to enjoy the sunrises and sunsets. I hope you get a chance to take a vacation, even if it's just a few days.

Time Gone By

2009-07-19T06:00:00.000-07:00

The phrase "he's fixin' to meet his Maker" means one is about to die. Back in the South when someone died, the body would be laid out at home after being embalmed. The family would sit up with the body until the day of the funeral, which was held at the church.

Saved- sinner- backslider, it didn't matter, when death came, you turned to the church for support (comfort, preacher, facility, grave, singers, food, flowers). If a person wasn't very well-known, church members would show up to prevent the family of embarrassment of a small turnout. The coffin was open for viewing. The corpse would be dressed in his/her Sunday best. Photos were taken for a remembrance. Of course, everyone would wear black attire as a sign of mourning the loss. They hymn Amazing Grace was usually sung.

Often, the church had a cemetery next to the building reserved for loyal members. For the trip to the family or city cemetery, a funeral procession was formed. At the front was the hearse, cars would drive slow behind. All cars would turn their headlights on, oncoming traffic would pull over to the side of the road in reverence and respect to the deceased. At the graveside service, the minister would repeat "ashes to ashes, dust to dust" while throwing a fistful of dirt onto the lowered casket. Family members would drop a flower on top of the dirt as they filed out. All the graves are dug in such a manner that the dead always point eastward for the Lord's return on resurrection day. Church members would all bring dishes of food to help feed the incoming funeral guests. This gave visitors a time to mingle with relatives and friends and reminisce about the dead.

Having recently lost my father, I thought I'd share what I've learned. While you may feel hesitant about intruding on the family during their grief, but it's important to visit, call, write, email, send flowers, or prepare food to offer your condolences and provide emotional support. It lets the family know that while their loved one is gone, they are not alone, that while suffering a great loss, they are still connected to the living and life will go on. Expressing sympathy by a warm embrace and saying kind words about the person who died is always appreciated. Most of all, be a good listener.

Decorative Details

2009-07-17T06:00:00.000-07:00

Anyone who knows me realizes I have an interest in home decor, interior design, and remodeling. It's the details that give a place a touch of style. It shows that one took the extra step, gave more consideration. My southern background makes me want to have a gracious and inviting home. I think it's important to make a room meaningful.

Showcase elements of your life by framing significant photos and memorabilia. This adds personal history to a space. Add organic matter to a room using greenery, plants, fresh flowers, aquarium, or fountain. The accessories you choose should be meaningful, but not too many to clutter a room. All items should serve a positive purpose or be something you absolutely love. Floor spaces should be free of clutter. Work material, gym equipment, and electronic equipment should never be the main focus to a room. Be creative and let your character shine through the finishing touches. Rearrange items in a room periodically in order to keep things fresh. These things add a personal reflection of the resident and give your home a distinctive look and leave a lasting impression on your guests.

I love architectural details: crown molding, wainscoting, baseboards, mantels, banisters, built-ins, arch ways, corbels, pillars, ceiling medallions, light fixtures, door knobs, cabinetry, hardware, stained glass, shutters, French doors, bay windows, hardwood flooring, stone tiles, ironwork, brick, high ceilings, Lighting fixtures must be functional, but they can also be fashionable or an art object. Curtains must cover windows and block light, but they can serve a decorative purpose to accent a room. They can be used to insulate a room or divide spaces. Shelving can maximize storage space, but they can also add style as a decorative feature.

Finally, I am a firm believer that God provided me with a wonderful home and it is my duty to share it with others. Therefore, I always strive to be hospitable and host visitors as often as I can. Come see me!

Sweet Baby!

2009-07-15T06:00:00.000-07:00

Unto our family, a grandson is born! Sunday morning, July 12th, at 7:ish we got a call to come to the hospital in Vancouver WA, my son Michael and daughter-in-law Bria would deliver a baby boy. By 11:12am Luke Michael arrived weighing 8lbs 5oz and 19 inches long. It was a quick delievery! They barely got the epidural done in time. They had us praying! But thanks be unto God, all went well. Luke has lots of dark hair, too early to judge who he looks like. He came on his due date. He's just a precious baby! Keziah, his older sister, took pride in her baby brother. They now have a nice family of four.

Our family is growing. It wasn't many years back, there was just the four of us, now we number at nine. We have often talked of downsizing and moving to a smaller, more efficient place, but maybe we should reconsider. It appears we should keep a big house for holiday gatherings.

I'm proud of my family, we all have love for one another as well as for God. Recently, I lost my father, which sadly decreased my family, but now I've gained a baby grandchild. God always knows what's best.

Pictures will be coming soon!

Down-Home Vegetable Plate

2009-07-13T06:00:00.000-07:00

When I was back home in Alabama for my father's passing, I got to eat a vegetable plate for lunch. Usually, you get to choose five different vegetables to fill your plate. Here in the Northwest, this isn't offered in restaurants. However, it's the norm or tradition in the South. No meat is on the plate. But lots of vegetables are included. Here are examples: butter beans, country green beans, pinto beans, collards, cream corn, turnip greens, fried okra, black-eye peas, field peas, purple hull peas, sweet potatoes, squash casserole, fried green tomatoes, skillet cornbread, etc...

This is the type of food I grew up with. Meat was expensive for my parents to feed six kids, so we had vegetable meals often. My dad loved to grow vegetables, so they were plentiful and practically free. We did have roast meat on Sundays, one night during the week we would havefried chicken, and another night of the week we would have pork chops. Otherwise we had meatless meals throughout the rest of the week. I remember having steak maybe five times before the age of twenty. That was a rarity. Occasionally, we had spaghetti, but not very often, maybe once every other month. We rarely ate out, due to the cost of feeding a family of eight. But the few times we did, we ate catfish with hushpuppies at Catfish King in Ensley. When we moved to the gulf coast area, we were given seafood as gifts from people. Then we got to eat shrimp and oysters.

Nowadays, people take eating out for granted. Like I pointed out, growing up we always ate at home. My poor mother had to cook three meals a day most all her life. Mother always sent my father off to work with a home cooked breakfast and my father came home from work for his lunch break, she always had a nice lunch prepared. Of course, she cooked supper everynight just like clockwork. One night a year, she was taken out for a special dinner, that was on their wedding anniversary. My father worked very hard physically, and he felt that eating out was a waste of money.

When I was four or five years old, I remember my father taking our family out to eat after church one Sunday at Jack's Hamburgers in Pelham/Alabaster area. We all got to order a burger, fries and a shake. It was such a big deal, I'll never forget it. Someone had given my daddy a gift of money, so he felt he could splurge. Funny the things we remember, isn't it?

I'm pretty spoiled now. There's not a week that goes by that I don't eat at least one meal out. If I'm not feeling well, Dale will pick something up for us to eat. My, how things have changed. I guess I'm making up for all the years I could never even darken the doors of restaurants. Who know, maybe by eating all those vegetables growing up, I'll live to be one hundred years old!

Makeup

2009-07-11T06:00:00.000-07:00

Makeup makes me feel dressed up, daring, somewhat attractive, and always cheerful. I love wearing makeup - now. But this was not always the case. From my birth to adulthood, I was not allowed to wear any makeup. However, I did sneak it at times when I got to my destination and removed it before returning home. It was my father who truly abhored makeup, my mother had more tolerance for it, maybe 'cause she was a female and could have more understanding for the need to be vain.

You see, my parents believed that wearing makeup was worldly, sinful, and akin to Jezebel! They had strict religious convictions about the subject. They believed a young lady should be virtuous on the inside and did not need to adorn the outside.

I was always jealous of my friends who could wear it freely. They looked so pretty and I looked so "plain-Jane." Looking back on photos then, I appeared somewhat insecure and self-conscious. My face could have certainly used some makeup to highlight my facial assets and hide my imperfections.

Once I did start wearing makeup as an adult, I was years behind my peers in "applying" experience. I was never taught the right way to wear makeup. I didn't know about makeup brushes, liners, or concealers. Yes, I had my challenges, but through the years I've "self-taught" myself by observing others and studying fashion magazines.

I have found that makeup is worth the trouble. Few people in this world have true natural beauty. Most need some additional help. Believe me, I'm no makeup artist, but I have trained myself to create a pleasing look (to me anyway).

Bring a Smile to Your Garden

2009-07-09T06:00:00.000-07:00

Aged garden tools, rusty iron gates, old shutters, dented galvanized containers, peeling bottomless chairs, weathered window panes, old red wagons, tire swings, rotting bird houses, and all things "past their prime" can bring a smile to your garden.

These time worn items can add some character and instill some whimsy to your garden areas.

If you don't own any of this stuff, go hunting at flea markets, garage sales, junk stores, and antique shops. That simply adds to the fun. When you find the one item that you covet most, place it in the garden and sit back and smile!

Summertime Blues

2009-07-07T06:00:00.000-07:00

I am back after the sad overwhelming loss of a wonderful man, my faithful father. He passed away Wednesday, June 24th 2009 at the age of 81 due to acute leukemia. God granted his prayers to die at home (just the day before he was in the hospital). My mother, my sister Donna, my brother Kenney, and my sister-in-law Sharon were in the home during his passing. God granted our prayers, he died in his sleep with no suffering.

A beautiful funeral service was held in his memory at Jasper AL as well as a graveside service near his birthplace. My father died the same week as Michael Jackson, Farrah Faucet, and Ed McMahan. Much ado was made over these celebrities' lives. But in my book, none of them hold a candle to the life my father lived.

He lived his life with integrity. He was a realist, a practical down-to-earth person. He stood for "truth." He has taken care of my bedridden mother for the past three years. Words can't fully describe my father, you had to know him personally to understand him.

Coping with the grief has been tough, it's hard to let him go. I've cried a sea of tears. I greatly miss him, with great sorrow and affection he shall forever be in my memory.

Thanks to all of you who offered prayers, words of encouragement, and sent cards/flowers during my mourning.

Isaiah 54:10 "Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed, says the Lord who has compassion on you."

Psalms 36:5 "Your love, oh Lord, reaches to the heavens, your faithfulness to the skies."

Escape

2009-06-16T06:00:00.000-07:00

Summer will soon be in full swing. People everywhere are traveling to fabulous vacation spots, spending a few lazy hours reading by the pool, attending outdoor get-togethers, lounging on the porch, skipping rocks by the creek banks, lazing on the docks, casting lines in the river, wading in the surf, and strolling through gardens.

In the summertime, we tend to take things more slowly, inhale more deeply, and enjoy each day more fully. Summer beckons me to get my suitcase out, pack my sunglasses, tanning lotion, map, sandals, swimwuit, shorts, sundress, and a beach tote. Can't wait to soak up the sun someplace closer to the equator. Not too picky where, just want to have a summertime escape.

Beach Dwelling

2009-06-14T06:00:00.000-07:00

In recent years, we've enjoyed many special days at Ocean Shores at our fractional condo. It's located five miles from downtown, near the jetty. We love strolling along the water's edge trying to find seashells while waves crash onto the shore. The days are blissful indeed with the breeze blowing and gulls calling out. Somehow it all adds up to a wonderful kind of calm, especially as the sun begins to set. How relaxing! That's what summer is all about - finding ways to let go, slow down, and enjoy the world around us.

What prettier setting than the beach to gather family and friends together. Each time as we unpack and settle into our condo, work woes and everyday cares wash away like footprints in the rising tide. No busyness, no to-do lists, no "plans," just the simple life.

Over the past three years of ownership, we've invited many friends and family members to share the coastal experience with us. With the additional bedroom and the hide-away couch, not to mention the floor space, we can acccommodate quite a few. There is a journal that stays at the condo for visitors to record their stays. Of course our sons' families have stayed over many times. But others have come over for the day, a night, the weekend, or the entire week: Dale's mom, Don & Kathy, Terry & Lynne, Tony & Mason, Mike & Jane, Marvin & Sharon, Dennis, Gary & Maribeth, Sharon & Dan, and Jami & Marla. We have the belief that if God has blessed you with something, it's one's duty to share it with others. I enjoy doing some entertaining (cooking) for others. The condo has a kitchen with basic amenities. We've served many delicious flavorful meals while at our shore retreat.

Ocean Shores offers natural beauty and almost-untamed atmosphere with its sculpture-like driftwood, tide-pools, changing tides, crabs,and kelp. From grandparents to toddlers, downtown Ocean Shores offers activites galore: putt-putt golf, go-carts, mopeds, theaters, waterpark, carnival rides, horse-back rides, boat rentals, museum, library, ferry rides, shopping, restaurants, ... And of course, there's the option to do absolutely nothing, maybe soak up the sun, revel in breezes, build sand castles, beach comb, build a driftwood fort, play board games, build a bonfire, put puzzles together, watch whales, and enjoy the company of loved ones.

So what are you waiting for? Summer has begun and it's waiting for you to go explore. I hope I've shed some light on the importance of relationships with others as well as the significance of solitude.

Summer Setting

2009-06-12T06:00:00.000-07:00

The grass is greener, the sun is brighter, and the days are longer, yes summer is upon us with all its joy and vibrancy. To me, summer means barefoot children playing tag, dashing through sprinklers, and selling lemonade. It means sunny days, blue skies, bountiful gardens, bike rides, beach trips, fresh peaches, tasty watermelon, home-made ice cream, roses, and socializing.

I love these late evenings outdoors on my new back porch deck. My husband stained and hung up our porch swing. My father bought it for me years ago as a house warming present. My parents drove across the U.S. to visit us. We had bought our first home. It had a covered back porch. It bothered him that it didn't have a porch swing. He went out and purchased one and hung it up for me. If you knew my dad, you'd know he's not free with his money. So, the porch swing has a tender place in my heart, knowing that he freely gave this gift to me.

I love looking out my front windows to our lovely garden yard. The window box is starting to mature and fill in nicely. Everything looks so gorgeous and lush right now. Dale does a wonderful job of keeping it looking pristine. He not only mows, he leaf blows the grass, power washes the paths, edges the walkways, trims the bushes, and pulls weeds. Luckily, we have a built-in sprinkler system. All we have to do is program it to come on at certain times and the lawn gets watered automatically.

I associate watermelon with summer. I love eating sweet red watermelon, juice dripping from my mouth and hands, and spitting seeds to my heart's content (only time its O.K. for a lady to spit). Summer is a cause for gatherings. Be sure to take time for friends and family, later on, you won't look back and regret it.

Beach

2009-06-10T06:00:00.000-07:00

There's something peaceful about being at the beach. I love the glow of the water when the sun beams down. A stroll at sunset is so wonderful, restoring your soul and senses with the sound of the waves rolling onto the shore, the seagulls crying overhead, and the peach-colored clouds filling the sky. Some of our most precious memories revolve around the beach. When we first got married we lived south of Mobile AL. My husband owned a motorcycle. We would drive to nearby Dauphin Island for the day and find a secluded beach to enjoy by ourselves. At that time, the island was very sparsely developed, so there was almost nothing but white sugar sand for miles. Since those early days, we've continued to make beach memories throughout our marriage. It's usually our first choice when deciding where to vacation. The above picture was taken at Ocean Shores WA in 2007. The pictures below are Dauphin Island.

Finding Balance

2009-06-08T06:00:00.000-07:00

Today's topic is balance. Balance is the feeling of being complete. It's having harmony in your life. It's essential to the quality of a person's life.

There are many aspects to life: emotion, family, finances, health, love, play, social, spirit, vocation,... If you neglect one area of life, you end up harming yourself. Sometimes, you're forced to make difficult choices and make sacrifices. At times, things collide.

Prioritize what matters the most to you. Be willing to say "no" when necessary. In the meantime, get organized, be flexible, and establish a routine.

Find ways to relax and relieve tension: reflect, pray, journal, and rest. Take time for self-care: eat healthy, take vitamins, drink plenty of liquids, and exercise. Don't feel guilty for incorporating a few luxuries into your life: manicures, pedicures, massages, facials, tanning,...

Build a strong support system: family, friends, neighbors, church members, co-workers,... Don't be afraid to ask for help.

Work on simplifying your life: don't overschedule or over commit. Save space for what truly matters. Know this, balance is a never ending evolving process. Allignment isn't easy.

Personal Happiness

2009-06-06T06:00:00.000-07:00

Choose happiness, that's my message today. We tend to hunger for our own personal happiness, but somehow we often feel guilty, selfish, at the expense of our own poor hollow souls. Naturally, we want our life to be both significant and recognized.

Joy originates within. A key to personal happiness is a well-balanced life. Happiness lies in the passions we pursue and in the pressures we decline. Take time to read, write, converse with friends, contemplate, etc... For me, I'm nurtured not just by what I put in my mouth, but also what I put in my mind. That's why I read, watch television, ... to fill my mind with new inspiration and insight.

I like to think of myself as a happy person. I try to be cheerful and positive. Negativity gets you nowhere, people don't want to be around you. I notice that some people live with the curtains drawn, their home is a work trap. If that's you, please don't live like that. You must find a way to express yourself, whether it's writing, singing, dancing, painting, drawing, or whatever appeals to you.

Here are some helpful hints: Don't take yourself too seriously. You can't please everyone. Don't let others set your standards. Do the things you enjoy. Don't borrow others' troubles. Don't hold grudges. Don't brood over past mistakes. Keep busy. Help the unfortunate. Appreciate the little things in life.

I am proud of being a wife, a mother, a grandmother. But those are only roles in life, not the core of my being. I love the fact that Dale and I are absolutely a team. He has always encouraged me to live as fully and as rich a life as possible while I'm here on earth. Thanks sweetheart!

Little House Has Potential

2009-06-04T06:00:00.000-07:00

Back in February 2006, we purchased this 2 bedroom 1 bath 1920 derelict home in Centralia on Magnolia street for a rental property. At my first walk-through, all I could do was shake my head in its run down state. But once my husband pursuaded me that it could cash flow even with the refurbishing costs, I began to envision what the place could be. The location wasn't bad, it bordered the much-desired Edison District. It also had high ceilings and a breakfast nook which added to its historic feel. That spring of '06, we worked on this "project," our diamond in the rough.

As you can see, it was quite a transformation. We put on a new roof, blew in insullation in the attic, replaced windows, replaced cedar shingles, painted and trimmed, installed a new front door, tore down the old broken-down garage, built a new carport with storage, fenced in the back yard, paved a driveway, constucted new front porch railing, and spruced up the landscaping. That was everything for the outside.

Inside, we layed down all new floorings, painted the walls, put in new crown moulding and baseboards, set up new bathub and surround, installed a new dishwasher, and mounted new light fixtures. We tried to pay attention to every detail.

We brought the house back to life. We knew it had "great bones." It's certainly a far cry from when I saw it for the first time. I'm glad we trusted our instincts and followed our hearts. It didn't turn into a money pit. We're pleased with the results. It has character and charm. We always say that if worse comes to worse, we can sell everything and live in it. Who knows what the future holds?

Crazy 'bout Quilts

2009-06-02T06:00:00.000-07:00

Having homemade quilts on hand was a given. Both my grandmothers quilted. They quilted mostly "scrap" quilts. In other words, people would bring them sacks of leftover sewing scraps. They would coordinate colors and make them work. Since they were scrap quilts, they didn't have a pattern necessarily. They used "all" the scraps, so each piece could be a long triangle, a small square, a thin strip, or whatever appealed to 'em. If there were quilting rules to be followed, they threw them away.

One of my early memories of my maternal grandmother, was spending the night in the bedroom off the kitchen. Since the house didn't have forced heating, she only heated the main gathering room during the day. So at night I was drowning in a heavy load of quilts, but I did stay toasty warm. Embarassed to admit it, but I wet the bed that night. My maternal grandmother made each of her grandchildren a quilt by the time they were grown. She hardly ever sat down without a needle in her hands. I treasure my special quilt, it sits in my entry foyer. I wouldn't sell that precious quilt for love nor money! Each quilt was different, mine happens to be made with fair colors: peaches and light blues. Many in the family can point to a fabric and say they had a dress in that print.

For my paternal grandmother, if I had to pick something to go on her tombstone, it would probably be a quilt. All my paternal aunts carried on the tradition and love to quilt as well. In fact, my Aunt Florence has made me two quilts. I plan to give one to each of my granddaughters when they're old enough to appreciate and care for it. This particular aunt I mentioned makes a quilt each year to raise money for foreign missions, it is auctioned off to the highest bidder.

My mother didn't have quite the same passion for the art of quilting. She started many quilts, in fact, there are many quilt tops in storage, but she never finished any to my knowledge.

As for me, I admire the workmanship, artist quality, and handcraft skill. But, I don't care much for sewing. Who knows, in my old age I might take it up, but by then my eyesight probably would be so bad I wouldn't be able to thread a needle! Oh well, I guess I'll still be warm under my stack of quilts.

From the Heart

2009-05-31T06:00:00.000-07:00

Ahh, sunny days. Taking a trip down memory lane of summers past: Makes me think of catching lightning bugs in the yard at sunset - I'd place them in some grass in an old clean jelly jar with holes punched in the lid. Makes me think of catching June bugs - I'd tie a string to one leg and it would fly around in circles. Makes me think of buttercups making my nose yellow. Makes me think of playing hopscotch on chalked sidewalks. Makes me think of eating popsicles and playing Frisbee. Makes me think of laying out in the sun hoping to tan, but only burning. Makes me think of sitting around a campfire at night. Makes me think of eating ice cold watermelon and spitting seeds on the ground. Makes me think of homemade ice cream. Makes me think of fresh strawberry pie. Makes me think of a pitcher of homemade lemonade. Makes me think of swinging on the porch swing. Makes me think of painting my toe nails on the front porch. Makes me think of running through the water sprinklers. Makes me think of staying up late and sleeping in. Makes me think of blowing bubbles and wearing shorts and going barefooted. Makes me think of riding my bike without a helmet down hills. Oh, to be a kid again! As you can tell, I love sunny days.

Shindigs

2009-05-30T06:00:00.000-07:00

The definition of shindig: a large and noisy party of people; a group of people gathered together for pleasure; informal festivity often with dancing; social occasion; celebration; merrymaking affair; commotion. For five years, we watched The Apprentice series. It is a reality T.V. show run by Donald Trump giving advice on how to succeed. Candidates are given a task each week, then their efforts are judged. The team challenge may be to create a product, market, create ideas, run a business, or lead. As the weeks go by, the pressure increases and deadlines get more aggressive. The overall winner becomes an employee of one of Trump's empires. Four of the seasons, we hosted a "party" at our house each week to watch the television show. My son's friends would come over and I provided food and drink. At the very beginning of the new series, each person would pick a candidate they believed would win in the end. Each person put $5 or $10 in a sealed envelope with their choice. Whoever was right, got all the money in all the envelopes. This kept the show more interesting, because we would cheer for the team with "our" player in it. As the show started playing its theme song Money Money Money, we "danced" in the living room. It was considered bad luck for your player if you didn't get up and dance. We had lots of fun and learned a few business things along the way while watching the show. Once it changed to Celebrity Apprentice, we didn't get together like that anymore. Good times, I miss it! Enclosed are some photos taken during that time. The following people participated (at least once): Dale, Nina, Jordache, Bria, Michael, Jeff, David, Chris, Amanda, Joyce, Will, Joe, Ben, Jen, Quint, Dacia, Cydnie, Jessica, Travis, Maria, James, Brandon, Jody, Drew, Jazz, Daniel, Linzy, Tony, Justine, Geoff, Melissa B., Jeremiah, Kristin, ... Hope you enjoy them!

Scrapbooking

2009-05-29T06:00:00.000-07:00

For the past five years I've gotten into scrapbooking. I love creating intriguing designs on pages. It gives me a chance to make remembering today with memories for tomorrow. Many photos are seemingly insignificant moments of life, often overlooked as we hurry through daily routines, yet those snapshots of day-to-day living are the essence of memories I hold most dear. I stumbled upon scrapbooking at the time of the birth of my first grandchild. I was looking for a way to corral and organize pictures and soon realized that I'd found a new hobby, a passion. I'd like to consider myself a scrapbook artist. Yes, there are others who are better than myself, but I enjoy making interesting graphic collages. The best part of scrapbooking is there is no wrong way and no right way to do it. For me, it's a personal expression. I don't have to please anyone other than myself. I find that it's useful in keeping a written journal of life events. My most recent endeavors have been making greeting cards. If you've never tried it, I encourage you to give it a stab. Start simple, pick a theme, choose colors, collect stuff, and begin arranging items until the layout is cohesive and pleasing to the eye.

Natural Beauty

2009-05-28T06:00:00.000-07:00

A few years ago, we were in the mood to go somewhere. We didn't have the time to get far away so we decided to visit the quaint 8-mile long Anderson Island. It's the southernmost island in the sound. It is only accessible by boat or a 20 minute ferry ride. To get there, you exit I-5 near Fort Lewis and head west to the historic charming town of Steilacoom located on the shore of Puget Sound. You catch a ferry on the local dock. From the ferry, there is a panoramic view of Mt. Rainier, Cascades, and Olympics. Anderson Island has one general store, one restaurant, a clubhouse, a few churches, freshwater lake, and a golf course that serves all 1000 residents. There is one school serving kindergarten through 5th grade. The older students must attend on the mainland. The island has one tiny museum and a dozen historic buildings. The island offers experiences for outdoor enthusiasts (kayaking, mountain biking, fishing, whale watching). While there, we hiked and explored serpentine nature trails and beachcombed the driftwood coast. We drove all around the island through park-like settings, climbing rolling hills, winding through mature trees and foliage. There is a great deal of wildlife near the saltwater marina (cranes, eagles, geese, ducks, heron, seals, otters, seagulls, deer, raccoon). We ate dinner at a lake-front restaurant. We enjoyed the small town atmosphere, both clean and safe. It's like a journey back in time. The quiet secluded island is a dose of tranquility, perfect for a summer day.

Countryside Hideaway

2009-05-27T06:00:00.000-07:00

A couple of years back, we took a trip to Redding and Lake Shasta CA. In Redding, we stayed at a hotel with a pool. The weather was warm and dry. Of course, our first stop had to be eating at In & Out Burger. If you've never tried it, you've got to! We visited the 700 foot Sundial Bridge, a green pedestrian cantilever cable bridge. The bridge deck is surfaced with translucent lit glass. Then we visited Lake Shasta. The lake is a reservoir created by the damming of the Sacramento River. We crossed the lake in a catamaran ferry and boarded a bus which took us up the ridge on a narrow winding road 800 feet in elevation. The natural limestone and marble caverns have beautiful formations of crystallized stalagmites and stalactites. They grow approximately one inch every 100 years. So if you're driving through on I-5, be sure to stop, it's worth the visit.

Lake Escape

2009-05-26T06:00:00.000-07:00

Since my husband works at R.E.I., he can "check out" equipment. So, he reserved a kayak for Memorial Day weekend back in 2006. Our son Michael, his wife Bria, and my granddaughter Keziah joined us. We took a picnic lunch and had a relaxing day at the Riffe Lake park located in Lewis County.

By the Sea

2009-05-25T06:00:00.000-07:00

In July 2006, we purchased a 2 bedroom 2 bath shared ownership condo in Ocean Shores WA. We get five weeks per year. It's located near the jetty. Our kids come join us often when we're there and we usually invite a friend or two to come over. It's comfortable and sits as close to the beach as you can get (legally). Below are pictures from September and November 2006 to view.

Baby Showers

2009-05-24T06:00:00.000-07:00

As I get ready for a baby shower for my grandson due to be born in July, I thought I'd share some past baby shower pictures.

One shower was for my granddaughter Keziah who will be five years old in June. Of course, we used a "pink" theme. After having two sons, I was ready for all things pink, lace, and ruffles. The shower was held after the baby was born. She's in the picture held by friend of the family Jody. New mom & dad are opening presents while guests look on.

The other shower was form my granddaughter Jazlyn who turned one in February. This shower was decorated in hot pink. We had a great turn out and she got lots of presents as you can see. My other daughter-in-law Bria made a special "diaper" cake to display. As you can see, we had no shortage of food.

Enjoy!

Church Summer Camp

2009-05-23T06:00:00.000-07:00

For years, I attended church summer camp growing up, from the time I was about six years old. It was always part of my summer vacation experience. The first couple of years were at Camp Cook Springs in AL. This summer outdoor recreational center had 18 wooded acres with an artesian spring-fed lake and pine needle cushioned trails. You slept in a crude cabin lined with cots while listening to crickets and batting chiggers. You ate in the dining hall filled with rows of wooden tables and birch tree benches. Evening services were held outdoors, each cabin sat on a blanket.

I always looked forward to the fun and entertainment. Activities were organized by a loving group of volunteers and parents. I remember over-scheduled days (7:00am - 11:pm non-stop activities) designed to create order by wearing out the campers. I remember the event signals: clanging bell, taps, and revele. Thoughts that come to mind: swimming, forced hiking, music, arts & crafts (lanyards, macramé, leather wallets), games (4 square, kickball, tag, water balloon toss, pillow fights), drama (improv skits, kangaroo court, "Doctor Doctor"), group discussions, talent shows, mess hall duty, devotionals, chapel, worship, and bible classes. Each day an award was given to the cleanest cabin, the reward was having possession of the coveted stuffed mascot. On the last evening of camp, we had a banquet. A boy could ask a girl to attend and you were allowed to sit by him (it was a big deal). Campers had voted during the week and awards were given: king, queen, prince, princess, most talented, camp comedian, etc... On the last day of camp, we would have our friends sign our autograph book with their address so that we could write to them when we got back home.

Music was a large part of camp. We sang silly fun songs and we sung sacred Christian songs. Fun songs like: Do Your Ears Hang Low, Found a Peanut, B-I-N-G-O, Out in the Woods, Boom Boom Ain't It Great to be Crazy, On Top of Ol' Smoky, My Hat It Has 3 Corners, Head & Shoulders Knees & Toes, and Yes We Have No Bananas. Church songs like: Kumbaya, Joy Down in My Heart, Praise Ye the Lord, If You're Saved & You Know It, Do Lord Remember Me, I Have Decided to Follow Jesus, I Am a C I Am a Ch..., Pass It On, So Rise & Shine & Give God the Glory, King of Kings and Lord or Lords, He's Got the Whole World, and This is the Day.

Originally, church summer camp was created to nurture the body, mind, and spirit of youth in a natural setting. It was a setting to teach about Jesus and deepen our walk with Him. Concentrated blocks of time were provided to establish and grow a relationship with the Lord. It gave kids the chance to make new friends, discover interests, and learn about life. It gave a chance to develop personal strength and self-confidence.

It was a period of time away from home, a time to learn from other influences: teachers, counselors, ministers, and friends. For me, it was an enriching childhood experience that contributed to the person I have become today. I have fond memories that I cherish.

For your enjoyment:

Hello Muddah, hello Faddah
Here I am at Camp
Camp is very entertaining
And they say we’ll have some fun if it stops raining

I went hiking with Joe Spivey
He developed poison ivyY
ou remember Leonard Skinner
He got ptomaine poisoning last night after dinner

All the counselors hate the waiters
And the lake has alligators
And the head coach wants no sissies
So he reads to us from something called Ulysses

Now I don’t want this should scare ya’
But my bunkmate has malaria
You remember Jeffery Hardy
They’re about to organize a searching party

Take me home, oh Muddah, Faddah
Take me home, I hate Grenada
Don’t leave me out in the forest where
I might get eaten by a bear

Take me home, I promise I will
Not make noise, or mess the house with
Other boys, oh please don’t make me stay
I’ve been here one whole day

Dearest Fadduh, Darling Muddah
How’s my precious little bruddah
Let me come home if you miss me
I would even let Aunt Bertha hug and kiss me

Wait a minute, it’s stopped hailing
Guys are swimming, guys are sailing
Playing baseball, gee that’s bettah
Muddah, Faddah kindly disregard this letter.

The Great Outdoors

2009-05-22T06:28:00.000-07:00

Back in 2005, my husband and I visited the beautiful Multnomah Falls (near Troutdale OR) on our way to Boise ID. We drove along the winding Interstate 84 that goes along the Columbia River to get there. It's the 2nd tallest year-round waterfall in the U.S., dropping crystal clear water 620 feet into a mossy forest cavern. The stunning falls are fed by underground springs from Larch Mountain. A hiking trail leads to the stone footbridge, allowing you to cross the lower cascade. The path continues on switchbacks to a platform at the top of the falls which has a great birds-eye view. At the base of the falls is a 1925 lodge with a restaurant and gift shop. We had breakfast there in front of a wood-burning stone fireplace before our moderate 2.3 mile trek. It was great to breathe the fresh scent of evergreens, hear birds sing, and experience some real peace.

Strolling along in nature is therapeutic for me, makes me slow down. It seems like nature makes my stress reduce and my blood pressure lower. Spending time in the open air somehow makes me feel more alive and healthier. For me, being outside has a way of improving my overall mood. Try it, take some time to escape to the great outdoors.

Father

2009-05-21T06:06:00.000-07:00

Of course with my daddy fading away, I've been giving a lot of thought to him that I'd like to share. He is quite a complex person, so he may be hard to describe, but I'll give it my best attempt.

He's not a tall man, standing at 5'10." Once, he had brunette hair, but now it's almost all gray. Growing up, I always thought he was quite handsome. He always dressed well and carried himself with assurance, that made me proud.

He is a man of integrity, having high morals, and expecting the same from others. He didn't drink, smoke, lie, cheat, or steal in my lifetime. My father was an avid bible scholar. He knew God's word backwards and forwards. Not only could he quote scriptures, he could tell you the book and chapter to just about any verse. He could tell you a bible patriot's name, the father, the mother, the sons/daughter, and the residency. I always admired this ability.

He was the type of man who had plenty of practical know-how and knowledge, but at times, he could have a know-it-all attitude. He's mostly known to others by his occupation (minister and mechanic), hunting, friendships, and church affiliation. He always had a bounty of energy, few people could keep his pace. For most people, working forty hours a week is adequate. My father only knew to work most all waking hours.

He was a realist, driven to speak the truth as he saw it. Most people prefer to leave well enough alone, but not my dad. He was sure to make his opinion known.

Like all people, he had his strengths and weaknesses. As a loved one nears the end of their life, you tend to want to dwell on their goodness. I appreciate my father for caring, protecting, and providing for his family. I know that God will richly reward him in heaven for his faithfulness.

Easy Breezy

2009-05-20T06:00:00.001-07:00

Warm weather draws me outside to enjoy the pleasures of my new porch/deck, which is partially covered. It is almost done. Can't wait to fluff up the pillows on the porch swing and sit a spell drinking sweet ice tea whittling the time away. I will cherish the time spent in my new outdoor space , a fresh-air extension of my home. I look forward to making the space comfortable and gracious with some decor. I anticipate spending time reading books/magazine, and listening to music. I expect to sip lemonade and make homemade ice cream. I hope there will be plenty of storytelling and much laughter flowing as the sun goes down. Sounds I will hear: crickets chirping, swing creaking, frogs croaking, and kids playing. I intend to spruce up the place with maybe a rocker, swing, wicker, cushy pillows, plants, etc... As summer ushers in, my number one goal is to provide some easy-going entertaining with my friends and family. You know what I mean, gatherings that are relaxed and simple, needing minimal work to achieve. Someday, part of the space will be screened-in. But for now, I'm satisfied to slip off for an afternoon of pure tranquility on the porch.

Vision of White

2009-05-19T06:00:00.000-07:00

Never had the guts to do it, but I've always admired white rooms inside magazine pages. First of all, I never could have a white room whenever I had kids living at home. And now that I'm a grandmother of three and probably more to come, I wouldn't dare try it at this phase of my life. In fact, I don't buy or wear white much because when I do I inevitably stain it. But I do truly love the monotone look with various shades of white together. You know what I mean: ecru, pearl, beige, ivory, tan, snow, antique white, alabaster, cream, eggshell, linen, taupe, vanilla, blush, bone, chalk, sugar, champagne, winter, oyster, seashell... I'd love to be in a room surrounded by a soothing white palette. It looks so airy, breezy, cool, and fresh. Makes you feel like you can breathe a sigh of relief and relax. It seems to give you mental clarity. The color white makes one think of purity and innocence. Imagine a white cast iron bed or maybe a hand carved white bed. The fresh linens are embellished with white-on-white embroidery and lace, covered by soft down-filled pillows just waiting for a weary head. The walls are whitewashed or covered with painted wainscoting and decorated with vintage ivory purses. On the dresser there is cut crystal and white porcelains sitting on delicate lace reminiscent of a more genteel era. Inside the vase are fresh cut white flowers from the garden. Hopefully, you can daydream about such a room, but I've also provided you with some images to enjoy. Trust the pictures bring to mind fond thoughts and perhaps even provide you with a little inspiration for creating your own enchanting space.

Of Faith & Love: Outdoor Baptism

2009-05-18T06:00:00.000-07:00

City churches had baptisteries, but outside the cities, churches held baptisms in a creek, river, pond, or any natural body of water that was closest. They'd wait until the weather cooperated. They also needed a number of converted souls before scheduling a baptism. The entire congregation would gather on the banks of the water and watch as the preacher waded out to a spot where he could stand a little over waist deep, followed by a line of people waiting to be baptized one at a time, youngest to oldest. The minister usually would retell the story of John the Baptist in Matthew chapter 3. He instructs "repent and be baptized." Believers were dipped into the water as these words were spoken: "In obedience to the command of God, I baptize you in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Ghost." The participants often shed tears as they recalled what the Lord had done for them. The witnesses would sing hymns like "Shall We Gather At the River" and "I Shall Not Be Moved." Many churches had baptismal white cotton gowns to wear over clothing. The white color represented a cleansing of the soul. As each one came out of the water, the ladies were there to offer dry towels. Afterwards, there was often a time of fellowship. The Bible states Jesus was baptized in the Jordan River, I guess being baptized in nature made the experience as true to that experience as possible. Baptism has been part of Christianity from the start. I, myself was baptized at the age of eight when I had reached the so called age of "accountability." The water was freezing cold, so much so that I had difficulty catching my breath. Of course the waters don't wash away sins, it's simply an expression of faith in the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus. You were declaring to others you'd walk in newness. For me, this was one of my life rituals, a glorious memory. The heritage lives on, I've watched both of my sons become baptized. Now they have children of their own, I trust the heritage will be passed.

Song:

Shall we gather at the river,

Where bright angel feet have trod,

With its crystal tide forever

Flowing by the throne of God?

Refrain:

Yes, we’ll gather at the river,

The beautiful, the beautiful river;

Gather with the saints at the river

That flows by the throne of God.

Fabulous Finds

2009-05-17T06:00:00.000-07:00

It's been a while, but I love to browse through antique stores, flea markets, garage sales, and 2nd hand stores. It's the "thrill of the hunt" and the certainty of finding at least one very special item among the mass of stuff/junk. Sometimes it's totally worth the time. An old picture frame in a box of junk might catch my eye. Maybe I'm not quite fond of the artwork, but I know I could take the frame apart and replace the art with a piece more to my liking or perhaps I could "doctor up" the frame a little bit to make it more appealing. It's not that I do much buying, mind you, it's just that I love looking. Anything from delicate crystal to stuffed wild turkeys intrigues my interest and complels to to take a second look. I spot architectural pieces (old doors, stained glass windows, ironwork, columns...), furniture dating from the 1940s back to mid 1800s, old postcards, dishes (china, porcelain, pottery...), vintage linens (chenille bedspreads, doilies, quilts...), depression glass, oil paintings, furniture, silverware, lace (Battenberg, Irish, French), old magazines, baskets, doorknobs, cabinet hardware, light fixtures, old photographs, books, jewelry, hats, purses, and old signs. I like this type of shopping over "mall" shopping because you get to see so many unusual pieces, things you don't see every day. It has a different atmosphere, including much friendlier clerks. Funny how I sometimes have nothing in mind when I go shop, and yet I'll come home with something in hand. I'm really not a collector of anything, I just like to have maybe one item to represent what could be a collection. However, I do collect milk glass. Luckily, I live in a town known for its antique stores. Whenever I get the urge to stroll through shops, I don't have far to go. When you're traveling down Interstate 5, stop by our town of Centralia Washington. There are plenty of "must haves" to see.

Savannah & Charleston

2009-05-16T06:00:00.000-07:00

Back in the Spring of 199?, I flew to AL and joined my sister Kaye and a family friend Carol to take a road trip vacation to visit the cities of Savannah GA and Charleston SC.

First stop was Savannah, a stunningly beautiful place, that has managed to hold on to its gentility. Inside the historic district, there are 24 "squares" lined with churches, moss-draped trees, architectural homes, cemeteries, fountains, and cobblestone/oyster shell streets. We spotted the bench where they filmed Forest Gump (life is like a box of chocolates). We toured the Mercer-Williams House made famous by the book and movie Midnight Garden of Good and Evil. We also toured the home of Juliett Gordan Lowe (founder of Girls Scouts of America). We did some antique shopping in the City Market. Downtown shops line the riverfront where we browsed and ate lunch (Po Boy sandwiches). Nearby, is Tybee Island where we walked the beach and ate at a Jamaican restaurant with a unique atmosphere and cuisine: jerk chicken, fried plantain, pole beans, slaw, coconut rice, and a mango dessert.

Next day we took in the picturesque city of Charleston. We took a horse-drawn carriage ride to see Rainbow Row, antebellum pastel row homes with narrow facades and balconies. They line the beautiful waterfront. Downtown is charming with cobblestone streets, gift shops, and eateries offering low-country cuisine. At the open-air market we saw many local craftsmen and their wares including Gullah women making had-woven sweet grass baskets. We cruised around in order to see more revived plantation homes, gracious gardens, live oak tree, and elaborate church buildings. Lastly, we visited the famous Citadel (military college). We enjoyed ourselves thoroughly. I can't wait to return someday. If you've never been, consider vacationing in the region, especially if you're a history buff. I promise you won't regret it!

Shades of Blue

2009-05-15T06:00:00.000-07:00

Yes, I'm still on this blue kick. Maybe blue is supposed to be a masculine color, but I have a strong affinity for glorious blue. In fact, our first brand new car was none other than classic blue.

There are so many shades of glorious blue that I love: sky blue, ocean blue, baby blue, royal blue, sapphire blue, indigo, navy blue, robin's egg blue, denim blue, peacock blue, cobalt blue, midnight blue, and silver blue. When I think of sky blue, I think of summertime waiting for the ice cream man to come by so that I could buy a blue raspberry popsicle. Powder blue reminds me of eye shadow, Easter, male infants, men's blue oxford shirts. Navy makes me think of uniforms, mariners, business, and flags/banners. Electric blue comes to mind when I think of technology.

Color theorists say that blue is calming, conservative, and pleasing. It symbolizes truth and spirituality. It's associated with stability and trust. They say that more people choose blue as their favorite color over all the rest.

Think of all the terms that use the word "blue" - blue planet (earth), baby blues (eyes), Blues (music), bluebook (pricing), bluestocking (well read), blue blood (upper class), blue ribbon (1st place), out of the blue (unexpected), once in a blue moon (seldom), blue-plate special (deal), blue in the face (exasperated), wild blue yonder, and true blue (loyal).

So tell me, what's your favorite color? Why?

In Love With Blue & White

2009-05-14T06:00:00.000-07:00

Who's in love with blue and white? I am, and I think I'm not alone. Blue has always been my favorite color. It seems that others also appreciate the classic look of intense blue played against pure white. My grandmother had some old blue willow dishes she used, this may have been the start of my fascination. I'm a fan of Flow Blue dishes and Asian china.

At my old house on Belmont, we remodeled the kitchen with white cabinets & appliances, a blue & white backsplash, and used blue accents/decor. I loved it!

At my current home, my living room couch is federal blue velvet. In may not be what is vogue at this present time, but it pleases me, that's what counts.

I also like yellow paired with the color combination. Place daffodils in a cobalt glass and it is absolutely stunning. My bedroom walls are butter yellow and my bedding is Ralph Lauren Imari Porcelain Blue. My master bath is also done in blue and white. I love its "clean" look.

Vintage Kitchen Linens

2009-05-13T06:00:00.000-07:00

In the 1930s, when the world was in the midst of the Great Depression, I guess it was hard to find the silver lining through the clouds. Every household, rich or poor, was affected by hard times. Economic woes kept people closer to home, meaning more "made-from-scratch" meals and more time spent hovering over hot stoves and soapy dishwater. Leave it to the savvy homemakers of the day to make the most of a bad situation. They found a way to bring a bit of cheer into the kitchen with merry designs and colorful patterns on everyday linens ranging from dishtowels to tablecloths to aprons.

Flowers, fruit, kewpies, and cats adorn the linens from this era. The pieces were made to be used daily, not hidden away in storage.

Though linens needed to be sturdy enough to stand up to all the work required of them, their true worth lay in the joy they brought into Depression-era kitchens. They injected a bit of whimsy and added a certain measure of femininity.

A variety of fabrics was used. Cotton was an readily available and an excellent choice. Our foremothers knew the sensibility of recycling. The resourceful homemakers of the time often made over cotton feed sacks to use as kitchen towels. The fabrics were resistant to fading and bleeding and could be laundered again and again.

Fortunately for us, antique stores and flea markets abound with lovely pieces still in pretty good condition to admire. They speak of generations past with many stories to tell. To me, they're works of art.

Dishtowels: My grandmother used dishtowels, but my mother simply used a drainer to dry the dishes. She never owned a dishwasher, so there was always dishes drying on the counter. As for me, my dishwasher does the drying. But if I handwash items, I use papertowels. Not very "green" I suppose. My friend Sharon is the opposite, she only uses dishtowels.

Tablecloths: I own a few tablecloths, but frankly, I rarely use them. Maybe on a holiday I'll pull one out, otherwise I don't use tablecloths. Growing up, we never did use them either. There were six kids and mother prepared three meals a day, so it was easier to simply wash the tabletop down than to mess with tablecloths. This was also true for my grandmothers.

Aprons: By the way, my own mother never wore an apron. Instead, she would wear a "housecoat." However, my maternal grandmother did wear aprons, nothing fancy, just something to keep her own clothes clean from spills and splatter. As for myself, I wear an apron half the time, thus I stain my clothes on a regular basis. I never learn! Reward: New clothes!

Summer

2009-05-12T10:50:00.000-07:00

Summer is on its way to the NW, and it is a season of delights to be sure. Flowers blooming, birds singing, children playing - signs of life and beauty are all around us. Occasions to celebrate abound, and I do love a good celebration, don't you?

My immediate family recently had a "get-together" in honor of Mother's Day. It was a glorious gathering with my beautiful one year old and four year old granddaughters running around. My husband smoked meat for southern pulled pork sandwiches (delicious). My sons brought me flowers and cards. My husband gave me M&Ms, specially made with my picture on them and words saying #1 Mom and #1 G'ma.

I like to start each day with a grateful heart. I certainly have countless reasons to do so. I'm surrounded with beauty - in my garden, home, and loved ones. All these things are brimming with inspiration.

Recently, we built a new deck, half is covered. Eventually, we will screen that portion to keep out insects. I look forward to finding a quiet sitting place on my back porch where I can relax and soak up the refreshing feel of a true summer.

News: I am so sad to reveal to readers that my father has been diagnosed with acute leukemia and has been given two weeks to two months to live. This has been quite a shock, we've always felt he'd outlive my mother. He will be 82 years old on his birthday. I would covet your prayers at this time. He is a believer and an honorable man.

Handkerchiefs

2009-05-11T06:00:00.000-07:00

When I was young, ladies' purses were always stocked with hankies ready for use. Nothing seems more feminine and ladylike. Of course, today we wouldn't be without our Kleenexes.

The handkerchiefs were delicate with intricate embroidery and skilled tatted or laced edges. They not only served the women to dry tears but served as "works of art."

I'm still fond of the beautiful linens. Maybe, you share enthusiasm for these things as well. I think they're absolutely endearing. Many are actually precious heirlooms.

Back in the day, hankies were used to signal applause at the theater. As a child, I remember "hanky waves" at church. My father had simple masculine white hankies with his monogram "L" for Leland. Preachers always had one ready to pull out to wipe their sweat.

A Time to Celebrate: Mothers

2009-05-10T06:00:00.000-07:00

Mother's Day is a time of celebration and gratitude for mom. It's a time of breakfast in bed, gatherings, and crayon scribbled cards. They say a mother's love is like no other love.

I can't imagine going through life without experiencing motherhood. Nothing makes me happier.

Raising boys was an adventure. My sons provided me with immeasurable amounts of joy, not to mention bruised knees to clean, rambunctious friends, and good-natured teasing. My love for my sons lifts them up and keeps them grounded. It allows them to take pride in their accomplishments and teaches them to be humble. It encourages them to laugh with abandon, and it dries their tender tears, too.

Mothers have given unconditional and immeasurable love since the beginning of breaths. Mothers cure "boo boos" with magic kisses and quell our fears with simple words.

My own mother will be 87 on her birthday. Unfortunately she has gravitated toward a more sedentary lifestyle that's proven to be debilitating. Sadly, she is now bedridden, yet she has a quick mind. Once, she had a bundle of energy and could out-shop the best of 'em. Over the years, she has made many quiet sacrifices and would move heaven and earth to give us kids a decent upbringing as best she could. Anyone who knows her would agree she's free-spirited, sharp witted, amusing, quirky, and a straight talker. These are the qualities I know as "Mom."

White Cakes & Promises

2009-05-09T06:00:00.000-07:00

Over the years, I've attended scores of weddings, part of the wedding party a few times, but most of the time as a guest. I giggle as I recall some that didn't go quite as planned. I've seen cake catastrophes and wedding veils being stepped on. One time an overzealous bridesmaid caught her hair on fire (turns out hairspray is quite flammable). It was quickly extinguished, but it left quite a smell for the ceremony.

At my oldest son's wedding, the candle lighters had trouble lighting the wicks. When they finally did (which was quite some time later) the congregation applauded and burst into laughing. At my younger son's wedding, there were dances that were pretty hilarious, including dance offs that were caught on videotape.

My own wedding was rather simple and tame in comparison. We married on Christmas Eve. We had a "home" ceremony at my sister's house who lived in Forestdale AL at the time. To this day, I'm reminded of the '70s each time I look at our wedding photos. I wore a wide brimmed floppy hat with a white peasant-styled dress. My husband had an afro hairstyle, wore stacked- heel shoes, and a wide collared polyester shirt. It's fun to reminisce.

Think of all the giddiness and commotion that goes along in preparations for a wedding. All this recollecting has me thinking about the many special occasions in our lives, the traditions we treasure, and the memories we make.

Graduation

2009-05-08T06:00:00.000-07:00

I remember it well. It was a warm night in May. I graduated from Alba High School in Bayou la Batre, but the ceremony took place in an auditorium in Mobile, AL. It was filled with happy parents and jubilant graduates all decked out in white caps and gowns. My cap fit just right over my parted-down-the-middle straight hair (popular in the '70s). I blended into the sea of white with great pride. Many years have passed (30 years, class of '79). In fact, I have been one of those proud parents in the audience a couple of times (CHS 2000, CHS & CC2005). My sons are grown, establishing themselves in careers and moving on to the next steps in their lives. But the memories that remain from graduation and all of these milestones are ever-present, and I treasure those special moments that I've been so blessed to experience. This time of year is are over-flowing with momentous events. Think back to your own cherished moments. With such cause to celebrate, why not throw a party? But memories are made in the everyday occurrences of life, too. Find ways to celebrate each day creating new memories to be treasured for years to come.

Unfortunately we didn't own a digital camera when my oldest son graduated high school. The photos shown are my youngest son who graduated from high school and 2 year college on the same day. He completed an accelerated program available here in WA State called Running Start. The last picture is from my 2003 WSU Graduation (Bachelor of Arts in Education). Yes, I accomplished that kind of later in life, which proves it's never too late!

By the way, eventually I'll scan graduation photos that are missing and add it to this web site blog.

Southern Serenade

2009-05-07T06:00:00.000-07:00

The South has been particularly blessed with one of the most recognizable and delightful dialects of English. There are many variations of the accent. For instance, Virginians sound different than Georgians. What is common to the regions, is that they speak rather softly and in a rhythm-like smoothness. The southern accent is one of those rare gems of culture that make life on earth a little more interesting. Most of them aren't aware of the niceties of their speech. They grow up with it, so its second nature, like walking, involuntary. Unfortunately, the southern accent is slowly fading from America. With the influence of television and airplane travel, there is more of a blending of dialects. Youth are sitting in front of the tube for hours. Once, you could tell what U. S. state a person was from, but it's starting to become harder to tell. Now, when you watch the Miss America pageant, it's tougher to hear the difference between the voice of Miss Louisiana from the voice of Miss Oregon. Watch CSPN and listen to the congressman, can you tell by listening who is speaking? No, the senator from Tennessee doesn't sound much different from Ohio's representative. You can hardly tell the slightest trace of difference. Who says we should all sound like news castors? Personally, I don't care for the homogeny of our voices. Yankees would like southerners to renounce their accents, to them it's taboo. They liken the accent to ignorance, and render less respect. Of course, that's an arrogant assumption. Believe me, there is a difference between poor grammar and correct English spoken with a drawl. The first thing Northerners want to do is encourage southerners to change. They feel the southern accent is an easy target. This happened to me. I moved to Washington state in June 1979. For the first four months, we lived with my husband's parents in Tacoma until jobs were landed. My father-in-law took on the mission of "improving" my speech. I could hardly finish a sentence without being corrected. It became so frustrating, that I avoided conversing at times. Thus, today many people do not detect an accent, however many do. I've always resented being forced to change. After all, it was part of my culture, who I was, my identifying mark. I wasn't ashamed of being from the South, I was proud of where I came from. Regional differences shouldn't be considered somehow evil. I guess it's impossible to stop the deterioration of southerners' pleasant vernacular. A phrase from the song My Home 's in Alabama by the country-rock group Alabama.

I'll speak my southern English
Just sa natural as I please;
I'm in the Heart of Dixie -
Dixie's in the heart of me

Dressed in Ribbon & Lace

2009-05-06T06:00:00.000-07:00

In the spring as a young child, I wore a pretty dress (perhaps smocked), short white gloves, and white patent leather shoes, with a hat or ribbons in my hair to church. Yes, I was brought up in church. My family was faithful church attendees, after all, we were in Bible belt country. In my hand was a little matching purse which carried mints and a quarter for the offering plate. My first church was certainly "old school." The church pews were wooden benches with carvings made by kids. The floors were well-worn hardwood. On the side wall hung a Sunday School banner showing the offering and attendance. There was no air-conditioning. Instead, you used a hand fan to cool yourself. It was made of a stiff cardboard attached to a stick. On one side was usually a picture of Jesus. On the other side was an advertisement usually from either a funeral home or insurance company. Before service, you were greeted with a "fellowship handshake." We sang hymns from the "blue book" like "Victory in Jesus," "I'll Fly Away," "Since Jesus Came Into My Heart, and O, I Want to See Him." People prayed individual prayers out loud, all at the same time. During preaching, many shouted "amen and preach it!" Sunday evening services were more relaxed and interactive. Testimonies were taken, annointing oil, sermons preached, altar calls given, and knees knelt. Wednesday nights were for the "faithful few." I still feel a deep sense of indebtedness to the church of my youth and to all those who instructed me in the Lord. It was a place for renewal and hope. Back in the day, those believers may have not been very "polished," but they were sure sincere, dedicated, and lively. For better or for worse, church gave me a "compass" for my life. It was the launching pad that shaped and built my character and beliefs. It is a part of my heritage I cannot deny.

Cinco de Mayo

2009-05-05T06:00:00.000-07:00

To commemorate Cinco de Mayo, I thought I'd share our Mexican Riviera cruise trip. This was back in 2004, in honor of our 25th wedding anniversary. We sailed on the Carnival Pride ship. The first port-of-call was Puerto Vallarta. We swam with seals, snorkeled, and basked in the sun at Mismaloya Beach. This is where the Hollywood director John Huston filmed Night of the Iguanas back in 1963 starring Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton. The beach was a seaside paradise with pristine sand, palm trees, tropical climate, and natural beauty. That evening we shopped in open-air stores and ate dinner in town. We experienced an afternoon "pour down" rain. They offer an u nique form of transportation, open-air cabs called Pulmonia, vehicles for taxis. Out next stop was Mazatlan, an historic seaside town along the Gold Coast. We stopped at an old fashion brick making spot, then we went to a furniture and pottery making district to shop. I bought a hand carved wooden horse and a large plate. We took a tour to visit Copala, which is a charming foothill Mexican village with cobbled stone which makes you feel you stepped back in time. The green foliage was lush, mangos were growing wild. There we entered an impressive church built in 1740 and other crumbling structures. We saw little children bare footed, riding donkeys, and selling their wares. Then we came upon a Concordia, an old style town square built in front of a 350 year old church. It was there that I purchased a necklace of amber and silver shaped like the sun. Downtown Mazatlan was filled with beautiful cultural art galleries and boutiques. Our last port-of-call: Cabo San Lucas, located on the tip of Baja Peninsula where the Sea of Cortez meets the Pacific. It was once a remote fishing and canning village, now a resort area. Dale jet skied in the ocean right next to El Archo(rock formation). It was a bit of heaven to sit on the beach, relaxing and listening to music with our beverages. In between excursions we lived a life of luxury on the ship.

Sweets

2009-05-04T06:00:00.000-07:00

What is it about bakeries that makes me lose control of my senses? I just love the heavenly aromas and staring at those glass cases filled with goodies. My mouth waters just thinking about it. I'm hooked on sweets. Growing up, I remember eating more than my share of Krispy Kreme donuts. While shopping in Birmingham, my mother would occasionally splurge and buy chocolate covered raisins, turtles, or maple nut goodies from the candy counter of the Pizitz Department Store (sadly, it no longer exists). Or she'd buy me a Rocky Road ice cream while she'd have black walnut or butter pecan from 31 Ice Cream (I think it's now called Baskin Robbins). If I was good getting vaccinations at the medical clinic, we'd stop on the way home for Icees (either cola or cherry flavor ). What a treat!

Tribute: My oldest sister is ten years older than myself. She took care of me as much as my mother. A couple of early memories I have: her fixing my hair for church and her giving me Peptol Bismol in a spoon on the front porch when I was sick. When I was ten, I remember she picked me up from school when I was ill. Let me think of how to describe her to you . . . As far as appearances go, she's conservative and very pleasing to the eye. When it comes to personality, she's calm, mild-mannered, warm-hearted, and agreeable. Often, I've seen her come to the aid of the unfortunate. As to her abilities, she's level-headed, sensible, dependable, and owns a steadfast energy. I've always admired her sense of responsibility and stability. Brain -wise, she's a quick learner. While I immediately call someone for help, she tackles and figures out technology things like DVRs, digital cameras, computers/software/programs ... She is a down-to-earth, nurturing type of person, happiest puttering around at home, creating a beautiful home atmosphere. She's a woman who's familiar with tools (measuring tape, level, electric drill, staple gun, screwdriver, wrench, pliers, hammer, hand saw, paint brush, rake, shovel, hoe, clippers, scrapers, and paintbrush). No kidding. When she moved backed to Alabama and purchased a home, she "finished" the hardwood floors and painted the walls herself. I've seen her refinish furniture, spray paint wicker, and gild a picture frame. I'm so grateful to have a sister who's readily available for help, support, and guidance. She's much too modest to reveal these qualities to anyone. I'm glad to share it with the world. Happy Birthday! To my sister Sherron Kaye!

Tulip Festival

2009-05-03T06:00:00.000-07:00

The days are warmer, breezes gentler, sun brighter, grass greener, . . . nothing announces the arrival of spring more than "just-opened" blooms. Dale (husband) and I took a day trip to see the lovely display of tulips located in NW Washington. The song Tiny Tim made famous came to mind: Tiptoe Through the Tulips. Although tulips are so commonly associated with Holland, around here, we think Skagit Valley. We witnessed an endless sea of brilliant color waving gently in a breeze, a field of tulips stretched as far as the eye could see, each blossom was a divine masterpiece. The tulip-with its sturdy stem, green leaves, and perfect petal cups shouted spring with a burst of vibrant color. I found out there are over 100 species that belong to the tulip family. The assorted characteristics of the tulip are many. They may have single or double blossoms or perhaps wear ruffles or fringe. They may also be quite unassuming, a picture of beautiful simplicity. Other stunning variations include the unique "parrot" tulip with its feathered and curled petals and tulips with multicolored stripes. In addition to the yellow, pink, and red tulips most commonly seen in gardens, they also come in colors of deep purple, orange, burgundy, creamy peach, and white. spring. When those first beautiful booms burst forth from the awakening earth, we know that the season of rebirth is upon us. After the long gray winter, the tulip bestows the gift of hope for blue skies, budding trees, and late afternoon strolls. Whether used in paintings or as a garden border edge, the tulip is truly the basis of a spring garden and just the inspiration we need to begin anew. Flowers beckon you to relax and sit a spell. Take the time.